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AIBU?

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To be shocked my friend is calling her baby Candy?

88 replies

lesley33 · 31/01/2012 10:05

Okay I know I am as it is none of my business really. And of course i wouldn't dream of saying anything to her or anyone in RL.

But really Candy - it just sounds like a strippers name to me. I always assumed names like these were made up when lapdancers, etc were adults - not given to them as children.

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ZZZenAgain · 31/01/2012 10:24

I didn't think "stripper name" when I saw it just now but I am not keen on it regardless

thisisyesterday · 31/01/2012 10:26

gosh, if that's all it takes to shock you then you must live a pretty lovely,, sheltered life!

what on earth is wrong with Candy??? Confused

IUseTooMuchKitchenRoll · 31/01/2012 10:26

Candida always makes me think of infection too. I used to work with someone who talked a lot about his daughter called Candida, I would have to stop myself from smirking on a regular basis.

plutocrap · 31/01/2012 10:28

I think this is a fairly normal (if a bit twee) name in the States. OP, has your friend got any American connections?

manicinsomniac · 31/01/2012 10:33

When I was 8 I was determined that I was going to have triplets called Candy, Crystal and Rainbow when I grew up!

I never knew a Candy or a Rainbow but did have a friend at school called Crystal and I thought it was the most beautiful name ever.

Now, they wouldn't be to my taste but I don't think it's exactly a crime. Not uncommon in America I don't imagine. I actually quite like Brandi/Brandy.

On balance, I think YABU. Mildly surprised would be normal but not 'shocked'

olgaga · 31/01/2012 10:33

Candida?

Do people really give their daughters the name of that condition? (Overgrowth of a yeast that normally lives in the digestive tract and vagina).

Good grief.

lesley33 · 31/01/2012 10:37

plutocrap - Yes she used to work in America - so perhaps that is why she chose that name.

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JenniferLaunders · 31/01/2012 10:40

I think it's sweet

Quenelle · 31/01/2012 10:44

I like it. I had a friend called Candy when I was a teenager and it's never seemed a particularly unusual name. I'm 43.

babybarrister · 31/01/2012 10:44

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Whatmeworry · 31/01/2012 10:46

I knew a very smart woman called Candy, but her full name was Candice and that looks a lot better on a CV etc than Candy IMO.

I think Candy is a bit pole-dancery, if not a stripper name.

ProfessorFiggyMoriarty · 31/01/2012 11:10

I know a very high flying, business woman Candy. Never thought about it as a strippers name tbh

toddlerama · 31/01/2012 11:16

Candace is a bit 80s but whatever. However Candida????!!!! Like thrush??

snuffaluffagus · 31/01/2012 11:18

I know a Candy, full name Candida, which is lovely.. if you ignore the fungas thing.

MrsCarriePooter · 31/01/2012 11:18

My woodwork teacher at school was called Candy (not that we called her that, but you know what I mean). Definitely not a stripper.

Candida? Just say NO. The woodwork teacher was Candice.

valiumredhead · 31/01/2012 11:19

I know a Candida or Candy as she is usually known. doesn't make me think of a stripper.

blackeyedsusan · 31/01/2012 11:19

candida? thrush Shock

ShowOfHands · 31/01/2012 11:21

I've only ever met two strippers. Guinevere (known as Guin) and Hannah (known as Hannah).

HipHopOpotomus · 31/01/2012 12:33

I always think thrush when I hear the name Candida too! I am prepared to be educated though - from the interweb:

Candida \c(a)-ndi-da, can-dida\ as a girl's name is pronounced kan-DEE-dah. It is of Latin origin, and the meaning of Candida is "white". From "candidus". The color was associated by Christians with purity and salvation. A Roman politician wore a special white toga to show he had these qualities, and hence the word "candidate" and "candid". Name of several early saints, including a woman supposedly cured by Saint Peter himself. However the name was hardly used in the English-speaking world until the 20th century. This may have been inspired by George Bernard Shaw's play "Candida" (1897), which was based on the name of the hero in Voltaire's 1759 novel "Candide", which is the French form. Candido is Spanish. Names which have the same meaning are Bianca and Blanche. "Candida" is also a clinical name for yeast infection.

boschy · 31/01/2012 12:40

Candida means 'white' and is MUCH more classy than Candice IMO...
I think Candy is sweet.

boschy · 31/01/2012 12:41

oops, should have read post above first!!

BrightnessFalls · 31/01/2012 12:44

I adore it. Walk on the Wids Side. One of my favourite tracks of all time.

A celeb has recently called his child that. I cant remember who at the moment. She might have got it from that.

whackamole · 31/01/2012 12:46

Could be worse. A woman at the baby clinic had a daughter called Dollie. Spelled like that too.

Chrysanthemum5 · 31/01/2012 12:47

My name was always considered a bit 'trashy' when I was younger. Now, it appears to be considered quite an unusual, 'nice' name. Doesn't mean I've changed, just the perception of my name.

Floggingmolly · 31/01/2012 12:47

It's crap, and say what you will, it will impact on how seriously she is taken if she wants a professional career as an adult.