<obv name changer, PLEASE don't out me if you know who I am [smile]> When I joined NM (like to keep my eye on the ball [wink]), I objected to the fact that I had to have my real name (which is _very_ unusual and totally identifiable) as my user name [hmm]. So, I created a name which is derivived from a nickname for vulva. I have had a message today saying that I need to get back to them with a suggestion of a new nickname otherwise a random one will be assigned to me. --Interestingly they haven't picked up yet that my tickers bypass the sweat filters.-- [wink] Fuxache.