To secretly wish that my sons will grow up to gay?

[BettySuarez]

Already starting to panic about potentially difficult relationships with future DIL's - particularly given the MIL bashing threads on here.

And worried that I will have NO rights to see my grandchildren in the event of divorce

My sons are still of school age so I am getting way ahead of myself here but I can't help but secretly wish they could both be harbouring secret homosexual tendencies

Don't worry about what may happen - there-in lies madness and lunacy.

Live with what you have, teach your children to love & live with whatever happens.

I had a long conversation today about 'people', they judged someone because of a situation that happened in which there was much unpleasantness on both sides, neither person behaved well, but one was apparently judged better for various reasons.

My point was - we're all human - we all sometimes behave in horrible ways, but we all have our motivations, we have to look at each other & accept, I think.

& I have forgiven much - I'm not a dreadful hippy...