To want my 4 year old to stop waking baby

[MamaMaiasaura]

Every time I settle dd 12 weeks ds2 wakes her up. I've tried to be patient and understand change. Lots to occupy him but as soon as I try to settle or nurse her he wants me. Even if dh here and occupying him. He's just done it again and I sent hI'm to play in his room. She's just dropping off and I can hear him calling me but also

Bless him, he's crept in all quiet and playing on his brothers phone very quietly. Feel bit bad but dd needs sleep and ds2 woke us all last up last night

YABU, I think you're being very reasonable! I've have screeched at the little monkey!! You are clearly a serene mummy :)

OOps! YANBU!!

You sound very reasonable.
Good on ds2 for creeping in this time though! Can you tell him how pleased you are with him and give him a sticker may e? It might encourage to be quiet again next time he seers dd going to sleep?

Catsu - what a good idea I
Need to do reward chart.

I do screech at times not serene and I think my dh would choke if I described myself as such