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It is barbarian to "clink" wine glasses

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TheAvocadoOfWisdom · 01/01/2012 19:46

is it not?

I raise my glass at toasts and find my neighbour on occasion attempting to clash his or her glass against mine.

Ugh, no?

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Chubfuddler · 01/01/2012 21:59

Oh do give it a rest trills.

pointythings · 01/01/2012 22:00

Yes, but horns and skulls don't do well in the dishwasher, you know. We are modern Barbarians after all.

Though crystal skulls might be nice, there's an idea...

baubleybobbityhat · 01/01/2012 22:02

Yabu, it is one of those customs that many people like me did not realise could be annoying or offensive to other people.

TartyMcFalalalalalalalalarty · 01/01/2012 22:02

My (large) family insists on clunk-clicking (top and bottom!) I find myself insisting on it outside the family Blush

Trills · 01/01/2012 22:03

If people ask if they are being unreasonable then I am allowed to tell them that I think they are, and my reasons for thinking it. :)

At least horns don't get that cloudy thing that some dishwashers do...

Grandhighpoohba · 01/01/2012 22:47

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Clinking the least of your problems if you are inviting barbarians.

PealThemWithTheirMetalKnives · 02/01/2012 00:27

YABU, you have henceforth spoiled my innocent clinking with intrusive thoughts of a hitherto-unsuspected social faux-pas.

Tis daft though.

Pandemoniaa · 02/01/2012 00:31

'tis a cheery enough practice and not one I had considered infra-dig.

Last night, outside in a park in the pissing rain celebrating the strike of New Year, six of us were barbaric enough to clink champagne glasses. It felt rather good.

Jux · 02/01/2012 00:40

I don't like clinking but dh always does and dd has grown up with the practice. [sigh, my child is going down the drain]

CuriousMama · 02/01/2012 00:43

I didn't think the tipping some in each others glass was a myth? Surely in those days they all drank the same stuff?

xyfactor · 02/01/2012 05:57

As an Anglo Saxon culture i'd say it was fine that we clinked glasses :)

ThompsonTwins · 02/01/2012 06:32

One does so love to be barbaric!

FruStefanLindman · 02/01/2012 08:04

I don't like clinking, but I'll do it if someone else initiates it as it would seem rude to ignore them. But I've got one friend who insists on doing it every single time we meet for an informal drink (in the pub, say), I just don't get that At.All Xmas Confused

I'm intrigued by Tarty's clunk-click though Wink

seeker · 02/01/2012 08:14

Among my siblings we clink while muttering "Filthy German habit" under our breaths in memory of our late father........

SlinkingOutsideInSocks · 02/01/2012 08:21

I will clink and clink gladly if it's a small group of old friends I haven't seen in a while. Other than that, yes, it's tedious in a contrived japes sort of way.

amandine07 · 02/01/2012 11:56

Oh yes I am a "clinker" when drinking a glass of wine...I aways ensure eye contact with the person I am clinking with! Xmas Smile

Fecklessdizzy · 02/01/2012 15:35

I clink, therefore I am ... Grin

Personally I find one's huge battle-axe rather impedes proceedings but if I put it down some bugger'll pinch it ...

GoingForGoalWeight · 02/01/2012 15:43

note to self clinking of wine glasses is common, Greggs, fruit shoots, Moet, Tesco ....slow down!

giveitago · 02/01/2012 16:05

Oooh we've done it twice - one at christmas and one at new year. We all clinked glasses with ds with his carton of apple juice.

Hight of sophistication. Really is.

we all content.

5Foot5 · 02/01/2012 16:56

My Mum is not a big drinker so any time she is having a glass of wine is a bit of an occasion for her and she likes to clink and say "Cheers". When DD was small she liked this very much and one day when I went to pick her up from nursery I was told she had tried to introduce the practise at lunch time (with the juice obviously!)

SauvignonBlanche · 02/01/2012 17:05

It was a memorable Christmas that DS 'clinked' my DF's glass and smashed it.
DF was more concerned about the waste of Chablis than the broken crystal. Xmas Grin

ItchyChinUnderMyWhiteBeard · 02/01/2012 17:36

If you don't look in the person's eyes you are clinking with you are cursed with a year's bad sex (chance would be a fine thingWink)

Hullygully · 02/01/2012 17:40

Clinking on special occasions where affection and bonding is felt, but only with those within reach and a raised glass to the others, but with a meaningful look of love to mitigate the lack of clink. Hearty cries of Up yer bum de rigeur throughout.

MabelLucyAttwell · 02/01/2012 19:58

There are correct ways of doing things. Where a toast is concerned, the correct way is to raise glass, repeat toast words and sip. That's all. Chinking glasses is infra dig, I'm afraid. Essex chavs and all that.

TalcAndTurnips · 02/01/2012 20:05

Today's toast is:

Wine Our Ships at Sea Wine