To be hacked off that dp has written on my new 2012 calendar????

[MrsHeffley]

I bought it with some of my Xmas money(of which I don't spend a lot on me).It was a gorgeous Emma Ball seaside one.Very expensive and lovely paper.

Was looking forward to getting organised tonight and writing up all the bdays,school dates etc.Now my whole system is ruined.

He hasn't even apologised.

It had seagulls on and everything.I now have to live with his scrawl on my calendar all January.

Depends - what did he write?

Was it a reminder for Steak and BJ day? If not, then YABU.

yadnbu. h used to do that when he lived here. drove me mad. the clue is in the MY calendar. therefore ask. if it was OUR calendar, fair enough!

did he write in pen??

YABU.

I have only one place I can put a calendar, and we all need to know what each other is doing, so if DP has something to note that I need to know I'd rather he put it on the calendar. In any case, his writing is far neater than mine

Dates he hasn't checked eg term dates which could highly likely be incorrect.He has a work diary to put those in and he put them in the column I use for bdays.

I like to get school calendar out and plot term dates,bdays etc(I even have a colour system).Yes I need to get out more but in no spend January we have to get our thrills where we can.

Cats-oh yes- black pen!!!!!!!!!!!

-off to check the February page!!!!

YANBU!
I love my calendar! Its all organised in my nice neat handwriting and colour coded !
If dh ever dared to write on my calendar...........I can't even think about what I would do to him, I'd be so bloody angry!!!!
It is funny though, I'm not like this about anything else!

kill leave the bastard

He's currently fixing a drawer I've been asking to be fixed for ages(guilt methinks)so it's a tough call.

YADNBU

You might as well give up on the year now, tbh, it's all gone to shit already. for you

YANBU! DH tells me if there's something to go on MY calendar, and I put it on there. Ban him from holding a pen in the house ever again! How are you meant to live like that??

YANBU if DP wrote on my calendar I wouldn't be happy.

Seriously how do I get over it?I can't live with these nasty little fizzes of fury I keep feeling every time I look at it all January.

kill leave him once you've checked the drawer is properly fixed

Ah I can add this to my mental list of the positives of being single.

Divorce him.

Alternatively just think that he's only mucked up January so in 30 days you won't have to see it.

bored, it's on my list as well.

Yes but January's depressing enough as it is

Still for you

YANBU

If anyone dared to touch my Filofax, blood would be shed :o

True WoodyAllenJesus but I was trying to be positive!

and actually I'd probably cry a little if my DP did that