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AIBU to expect DP to sleep at same end of the bed as me?

72 replies

CurlyJims · 28/12/2011 21:39

Is this really too much to expect?

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icooksocks · 28/12/2011 21:40

Do you top and tail then Confused

Gargula · 28/12/2011 21:41

Eh?

ILoveSanta · 28/12/2011 21:41

I wouldn't want smelly feet next to me Xmas Grin

QueenLush · 28/12/2011 21:42

It's to make the "Dutch Oven Effect" more effective as the farts waft directly up into your face if you top and tail.

Kayano · 28/12/2011 21:43

Deja vu Confused

ISayHolmes · 28/12/2011 21:43

Depends on so many things: the bed size, how well either of you sleep, when each of you come to bed, if one of you does night shift/odd hours. More details, please!

CurlyJims · 28/12/2011 21:43

Yes, we top and tail but I sleep at the correct end of the bed, he sleeps at the end of the bed, does anybody else find this strange?! His feet stink the blankets out and he is constantly kicking the blanket over my head meaning i can't breath... When I complain he says I am being unreasonable as he gets cold feet...

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TheBlackDahlia · 28/12/2011 21:44

Two threads. One subject. Neither of them all that gripping. YABU.

ISayHolmes · 28/12/2011 21:44

Oooh misread the thread title. I thought you said "IN the same bed".

I feel very Blush now.

StickAForkInMeImDone · 28/12/2011 21:45

Have you actually asked him why he sleeps at the other end?

CurlyJims · 28/12/2011 21:45

sorry posted twice cause I forgot to put the subject in on my last post :(

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skybluepearl · 28/12/2011 21:45

it's ok if you like suking his toes ha ha

SuePurblybilt · 28/12/2011 21:45

Now, answer me truthfully. Is this true? Really? Remember, I hate lying and will be very disappointed if I find out you've been fibbing. Have a good think.
Now. Is it really?

GreenEyesAndNiceHam · 28/12/2011 21:46

Does he come from a big family??

ZillionChocolate · 28/12/2011 21:46

Weird.

maryz · 28/12/2011 21:46

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BluddyMoFo · 28/12/2011 21:47

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CurlyJims · 28/12/2011 21:47

He says its so he can breath easier? The window is at my end of the bed though....

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YuleingFanjo · 28/12/2011 21:48

Why not ajust your thinking and sleep the same way round as him, then you'll both be sleeping the same way.

SuePurblybilt · 28/12/2011 21:48

So swap ends to join him. If he moves again, it's you.
Sorry.

reelingintheyears · 28/12/2011 21:49

Queer Hawk.

Bohica · 28/12/2011 21:49

I agree with mary but I would like to add that you can take your pillow with you.

TheProvincialLady · 28/12/2011 21:49

Do you brush your teeth before bed?

StickAForkInMeImDone · 28/12/2011 21:50

Does he have a foot fetish? Can he only sleep whilst taking in the fragrant aroma of your feet?
Why don't you sleep at the wrong end with him?

CurlyJims · 28/12/2011 21:50

Sue Purblybilt I swear its true lol Its been going on for over a year just think he's a weirdo!! I can't see any logical reasoning for it! I wouldn't be able to sleep down his end (as we now refer to it) since there is no foot board and it's just too weird...!

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