My dp stayed out allday yesterday at the pub and then stayed round a friends,he also

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left me on my own boxing day whilst he went to the pub,im fuming what would you do?,we are not getting on at the moment and I feel he is taking me for granted,leaving me to bring up our family alone.

Depends on the background. If I had a reason I wanted my DH to stay, told him why, it was reasonable, but he still went, then yes I would be annoyed.
If the issue isn't about the pub on boxing day but the fact you are feeling taken for granted, then that is the issue you need to broach with him. Why are you feeling like that? What do you expect him to do differently?

Partners do things without each other sometimes, it's just normal, and boxing day pub seems ok unless there is something else going on like I said.

we are not getting on at the moment

Thats why hes stayiong out - to avoid confrontation.

The biggie is: why aren't you getting along?