It's my birthday next Sunday, AIBU to want to spend it with my DC;s and not go out for lunch with DH?

7 replies

RainbowSheep · 17/12/2011 20:06

DH has arranged for us to go out for Sunday luch together, I really wanted to spend it at home with the DC's as I work during the week. I thought we could go out for ameal one evening when they are in bed, aibu to suggest this?

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Differentname · 17/12/2011 20:07

Yanbu

JackiePaper · 17/12/2011 20:11

is your birthday christmas day? Think you should definately be the one who gets to decide what you do. yanbu :)

NoGoodAtHousework · 17/12/2011 20:12

Yanbu but is next Sunday not Xmas day also and therefore would you not be with them all day instead of a meal out-which inevitably wherever you go will just be a full slap up Xmas dinner as supposed to an ordinary Sunday lunch?

Am I being thick????

IneedAChristmasNickname · 17/12/2011 20:45

YANBU! Why would your DH want to be away from his DC on Christmas day? Unless you don't celebrate Christmas I suppose?

Either way, YANBU

squeakytoy · 17/12/2011 20:53

I am confused...

squeakytoy · 17/12/2011 20:54

Unless, you mean tomorrow???

MeMySonAndI · 17/12/2011 20:57

YABU, If It was my birthday I would leave both the children and husband at home and head for a day on my own, with myself and no one else. (Yes, I don't have a spare minute of my life when I am not working or taking care of somebody else's needs).

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