to be worried about trying anal with DH

[Chloe222]

My DH and I have a brilliant sex life. We have been married nine years and have sex at least three times a week.
We always experiment and try new things and despite having 2 children we always try and make some sexy time a minimum of a couple of nights a week.
Recently DH and I have been watching some porn (in our own privacy of bedroom of course) and we were both turned on by an Anal clip.
Now DH wants to take it further and while the thought really turns me on and some of my friends have already told me it's amazing (although one hated it) I'm worried about a few things - is it sore, is there any mess? what can I do to loosen up etc - or should I even be doing it at all?
I hope this is not offensive to anyone but any feedback would be great.

Bless him, I do however love the term "sexy time" Will use this and report

I just loved it- til I got skin tags on my anus. They were a nightmare to get rid of and quite common amongst folks who like it up the crimper!

Regardless, if you're going to do it anyway- enjoy!

When it comes to Anal (love the capitalisation btw), the rule is: the man goes first. So go find a dildo the same size as your "husband", and see how he likes it up his arse. And then you.

Wouldn't it be nice if every reply on these type of threads was a nice recipe for lamb hotpot, or say, a knitting pattern for a snazzy twinset or something ?

And then see how sexytime becomes cup of tea and biscuit time

Ooo Gay now that sounds nice

The poster up there ^ a bit who mentioned the Green Wing coffee enema - I still laugh about that now - finest bit of comedy television ever made IMO. And a must for the OP - the hotter the better!

End of term = not much homework. Bored OP?

Although thanks for 'sexy time'