to have a quick nose at DSIL's bank statement when she nipped out the room?

[ChaosTrulyReigns]

C'mon, everyone does it.

I'd nipped round this afternoon to have a coffee and discuss Boxing Day arrangements with her any excuse. She wanted to show me what she'd bought for the DC and pooped out to the garage to fetch it, so I sprung into action and had a quick squizz at the Halifax statement sticking out her paperwork basket where she keeps this stuff.

I'm pretty certain that I managed to jump away in time as she came back in the room, therefore covering my tracks.

I'm not BU am I?

(lots of interesting transactions on the account btw )

Do you know?

If she would have been upfront about it, i would have probably told here anything on that statement - It was just the surrepticiousness of it - that's bothered me.

Homemade biscuits Cother.

And I'm trying a new coconut tart tomorrow if I can fit it in with my amazingly busty day

Its only my own brothers. I read it out to him over the phone. I know his pin number and a couple of my friends for when we pop down the cashpont for each other when we cant be bothered/cant get down there. The same couple of friends I have lived with before and we have seen all of each others mail open

I'd be really pissed off if someone was rifling through my paperwork. Complete and utter cheek tbh and I'd call them on it.

I'd rather your post had been the other way round Chaos, then you could have told us how she'd spent her money.

Bamboo - just a bucket of a lot of direct debits.

And a large Agent Provocateur debit more likely Cadbury's.

I'll swap my homemade fudge for you tart - and the busty day sounds fun

OP, i think that you are bloody awful tbh. Your poor SIL.

My friend's MIL does this .... I keep telling her to get some mousetraps ...

Sorry OP didn't read the thread

So you have permission Molly. Slightly different then isn't it?

Call her on it!

Tell your brother what she did.

It's fucking rude and I would think twice about leaving her unattended in my house ever again.

Makes you wonder what she's done before.

Borrow a bank slip from a really rich friend and drop it accidentally-on-purpose where she sees it.

Then say you must dash, your fortnum and mason delivery is being brought round by the masseur and beauty therapist is to follow hot on their heels.

What a rude cah she is!

You nosy cow. Everybody does not do it.

Ah, just read properly. She's a right cow.

I just wouldnt care either way unless she was planing to rob me. If anyone comes in my palce and reads my stuff I really wouldnt be bothered tbh.I dont think its the end of the world really

It's an invasion of privacy Molly

Why does anybody have the right to know, without your permission, what's in your bank account?

So it was YOU that pooped in the garage? Dirty bugger.

This is a total betrayal of trust. I would be appalled if anyone did that to me and it says much more about the snooper imo. I would be seriously pissed off about it and would have spent the entire day coming up with all the smart comments I wish I'd made to her at the time.

Maybe next time she turns up, find a reason to leave the room and sweetly say 'no peaking at anything whilst I'm gone'. What a cow.

Chaos is being controvershall
She's a bloody troublemaker, her.

Next time leave it in the same place as before but write on it "I know you are reading this you nosy fucker"

or cover it with special paint, she'll be caught rapid

My DP used to read my post and look trough my things. I started writing "if you're reading this, you are clearly a cunt"

It soon stopped!!

All this pooping in the garage is making me queasy.

Personally I would leave a note that said

"Three pages down is my CC statement, but dont tell DH what is on it!"

then put another note three pages down saying

"Gotcha!" :o

Am I weird in that this would never even cross my mind???

I hate reverse AIBU.

FFS have faith... of course your SIl was being a twat!