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HOW MANY FUCKING TIMES WILL FUCKING DH BE COMPLETELY FUCKING UNREASONABLE?

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 10:33

DD has aspergers. she is fine if things are just so ad don't deviate from her 'norm'..

on saturdays she has pizza.

she saves half of her pizza to eat for breakfast on sunday morning.

This is the law of DD.

How many fucking sodding bastard times is DH going to eat the fucking pizza? even just one piece? This means DD goes off on one, ranting and squawking and will now be in a mood for the rest of the fucking day.

Yes, DD should learn that a piece of pizza isn't the end of the world but FUCKING HELL!!!!!

HOW MANY FUCKING TIMES???????????????????????????????????

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stinkingbishop · 04/12/2011 10:34

Oh Carol...what's his defence?

auntiepicklebottom2 · 04/12/2011 10:35

why not cook 2 pizza 1 for dd and one for DH.

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 10:36

he doesn't have one. he is a nob. a thoughtless stupid nob.

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 10:37

he has his own fucking pizza. then feels the need to pick. fucking nob.

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auntiepicklebottom2 · 04/12/2011 10:38

i can see why you are so angry

QuintessentialyFestive · 04/12/2011 10:38

oh, that is deliberately uspetting.

My dh only did similar once, there was one piece of blueberry pie left (I had made it from scratch for pudding, with blueberries me and the kids had been out foraging). The only person who had not eaten blueberry pie, was ds1. It was OBVIOUS the piece was left for ds1. But no, dh had to scoff it. Ds1, naturally made such a scene, and was so upset.

Eating food earmarked a child is a total no no. You just dont do it.

PigWhisperer · 04/12/2011 10:39

Time to go out for a nice day, on your own. Let him deal with DD.

Is it deliberate? Is he trying to teach her something or does he just forget?

IDontDoIroning · 04/12/2011 10:39

Well I hope you leave him to deal with her bad mood for the day.

TOTU · 04/12/2011 10:39

There's no excuse for this. He's being a dick.

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 10:40

oh hang on.

he claims not to have. in his words he 'wouldn't dare'.

maybe she ate it herself?

the mystery of the missing pizza Confused

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QuintessentialyFestive · 04/12/2011 10:40

Can he go out and buy dd a new pizza and cook it for her?

He really should.

Does he understand her and show her compassion at all?

QuintessentialyFestive · 04/12/2011 10:41

How strange!
He wouldn't lie about it?

Was he out drunk last night and ate it when he got home?

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 10:41

apologies DH. you are a bit of a nob but not that much.

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KiwiJean · 04/12/2011 10:41

He is a selfish dick.

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 10:42

he's done that before Quint, that's why I automatically assumed it was him again.

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QuintessentialyFestive · 04/12/2011 10:42

Well, you have a nice sunday pizza mystery to solve!

CardyMow · 04/12/2011 10:44

Oh.My.God. If anyone was to deliberately (and more than once or twice is deliberately IMO) wind up my 13yo DD who has asd, I might be forced to inflict serious pain upon their person with a rusty fork. At the same time as wishing a plague of boils upon their bottom. Whilst stamping up and down upon anything that they held dear to them.

Is he usually such a dipstick when it comes to your DD's asd? Is he doing it on purpose to make a point? Or is he genuinely just an unthinking muppet? And who has to deal with the ensuing meltdown - him or you?

CardyMow · 04/12/2011 10:45

Ooooooookay. Do you have any OTHER dc? That may have filched the pizza? The mystery of the missing pizza...

RumourOfAHurricane · 04/12/2011 10:47

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Maryz · 04/12/2011 10:51

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stinkingbishop · 04/12/2011 10:54

Well, regardless, I think Sunday has become 'let's cook pizza with Dad' day.

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 11:08

DD1 stayed at friends last night - so it wasn't her.

DH isn't usually a complete nob. only a bit of one.

maybe the dog has learnt to open the fridge?

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HecateGoddessOfTheNight · 04/12/2011 11:51

Who else is in the house?

Your daughter is having a meltdown, so logically it is unlikely that she ate it!
Your other daughter wasn't there. so she didn't eat it.
You didn't eat it.
Your husband claims he didn't eat it.

If there is nobody else in the house, then I'm going to take a stab in the dark and suggest that husband dearest is telling porkies Grin

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CarolCervix · 04/12/2011 12:13

i suspect i may occasionlly do some sleepwalking.

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HecateGoddessOfTheNight · 04/12/2011 12:16

sleepwalking to the fridge and then some sleepeating, you mean? Grin

That's a good one.

I may use that one. Grin