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AIBU to be wearing my nose stud again at 31 after 2 years of not wearing it?

27 replies

MistyMountainHop · 12/11/2011 16:27

when i was younger i used to be quite "alternative" (cringeworthy word i know Hmm , but can't think of another one! ) was into rock music, well still am, but don't look like i am iyswim, i had tattoo's (well still got them but they are usually covered with clothes these days) several piercings and was in bands etc

i took most of my piercings out a few years ago apart from nose stud, but then i took it out a couple of years ago when i went for a job interview, however i found it today sorting out my stuff, its a small, tasteful diamond stud and thought i would try and see it would still go in, and it did, and i don't want to take it out!!

but am wondering if 31 nearly 32 is too old to be wearing one? i guess i just sometimes miss the "old me" and by wearing my nose stud again i am kind of, reclaiming some of the old me back?

OP posts:
worraliberty · 12/11/2011 16:29

Of course it's ok, tons of people of all ages wear them.

Sharney · 12/11/2011 16:31

I have a good friend who got one a few months ago. She's 39. Who cares what other people think. If you want to then go for it. Grin

supadupapupascupa · 12/11/2011 16:31

i'm impressed. took mine out at 33 for my wedding, and forgot to put it back in. Hole closed up and that was that. I am missing my nose ring and would certainly wear it if I could. Mine was the tiniest diamond (fake) and in my opinion looked and still would look lovely.

MistyMountainHop · 12/11/2011 17:16

hooray, glad people haven't swarmed on the thread to say no dont do it! :o

its a bit sore though

really supadupa straight away? how long had you had it done for? i was only 13 when i had mine done so it had been in for a very long time!

OP posts:
Grumpla · 12/11/2011 17:19

I can't imagine taking mine out. I have a couple of other piercings too. I'm about your age and don't think it's inappropriate or weird.

HarrietSchulenberg · 12/11/2011 17:25

I am somewhat older than you and still wear my small nose stud. I would feel undressed without it, although I have taken it out when in jobs that required it. I used to wear a ring years ago, and I put it back in for fancy dress purposes a couple of years ago, but it just didn't feel right (felt too old) so took it out and went back to stud.

If it feels right stick with it.

shesparkles · 12/11/2011 17:27

YANBU at all!
I was 36 when I had my nipple pierced! (reclaiming after BF 2 dc-well that's my story and I'm sticking to it)

Crevix · 12/11/2011 17:28

i'm 37 and had a break of about 3 years a wjile back. it's been back in for about 3 yers. it is my small bit o frebellion.

quirrelquarrel · 12/11/2011 17:29

Nose studs look cool on anyone! :o

queenrollo · 12/11/2011 17:29

YANBU

i'm 36. i used to have my nose pierced but it went when i was working in retail. I haven't had one in for about 10 years.

I got it re-pierced on Weds. then came home and dyed my fringe bright blue Grin

GracieW · 12/11/2011 17:36

I am envious, I always wanted one!

Ponyclubmum · 12/11/2011 17:40

I'm 30 and I still wear mine. It's a tiny stud and I love it. I'd like to wear a ring again, but I want a really small one and haven't found one small enough yet.

YANBU, go for it!

theoldtrout01876 · 12/11/2011 17:58

Hey im 46 and wear a ring in my nose:o I have no intention of ever taking it out either,I like it.

Hannah31 · 12/11/2011 18:02

Mine closed up ages ago and I don't think I could wear it at work. But I loved it. Deeply. And I think it looks cool however old you are. Not that 31 is old AT ALL IT'S ACTUALLY VERY YOUNG AND TRENDY AND EXCELLENT.

Shutupanddrive · 12/11/2011 18:11

YANBU at all. Plenty of people of all ages have their noses pierced

supadupapupascupa · 12/11/2011 18:50

haha! Yes that quick OP. Although it is only closed on the inside, I can get it halfway through. I had the other side done once and it lways healed up quickly and got badly infected. I don't have the nerve to shove it all the way through to repierce Sad

LesserOfTwoWeevils · 12/11/2011 19:18

YANBU. I'm 51, have had mine for 20 years and continued to wear it while I worked in a bank. Two other staff members reported it to HR within the first week I was there...and then one of them had her nose pierced too.

EricNorthmansMistress · 12/11/2011 19:28

Don't be daft. Some piercings are a bit shit when you get older but a nose piercing is ageless.

LCarbury · 12/11/2011 19:29

YANBU

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MistressFrankly · 12/11/2011 19:42

YANBU i am 33 (When did that happen??) and have nose and other piercings, hair like a My Little Pony and a growing tattoo collection. If it what you like then go for it. Age shouldnt come into it. Growing old gracefully sounds a little tedious to me Grin

Goldrill · 12/11/2011 19:52

Ooh - not sure about this! I'm 36 and have had mine back in for 3 years now after 10 years with a bloke who didn't like it so I left it out [muppet].

I feel much more "me" with it in, but I have noticed a couple of people my age on telly with them in recently and though - I sincerely hope I don't look like that! I had it done at 16 and maybe it shows me how much I've aged!

Mine made my eyes water a bit putting it back and I used a straight one not a curly back to get it through, but it was fine within a few days.

MorallyBankrupt · 12/11/2011 19:56

SIL has her nose pierced and it looks great. I say go for it!

MistressFrankly · 12/11/2011 19:58

See i think whether piercings work or not has more to do with the character and structure of a persons face rather than age. Some people just look wrong with piercings.

Ask a friend who is brutally honest.