Haha chocolates causing an issue!
dazzle, are you insinuating that doctors (as a profession) are seriously open to bribery
Hmm I don't think its widespread, but I think it could and does happen. I am aware first hand of 'strange' goings on in purchasing within the NHS. Nothing provable, so I wouldn't like to elaborate but I do know that one of the people concerned left in mysterious circumstances though. I also know that drug companies, like to give gifts to doctors whilst training. The stuff my BiL has been given is eye opening and slightly worrying.
As for complaining, I think its frowned upon by British culture as a rule as being 'difficult'. A lot of people with genuine complaints feel they are being petty or being difficult. Others, don't feel they have a right to, because of the 'its free be grateful mentality) Others still have issues about challenging someone in a position of authority like a doctor.
Like I said earlier, some people feel a lot more comfortable changing doctor and finding another, but the system makes it very difficult to do that unfortunately. It should be a lot easier and clearer for people who really want to do that. Doctors who end up with a lot of patients changing could be a way of spotting problems that would otherwise not be picked up.
Certainly for me, when I had an issue with my doctor, it was small but had a big impact on me in knocking my confidence further. There was no way that I felt capable of making a complaint afterwards. Its made me less trustful and less likely to go to the doctor - potentially putting my health at risk in the future. Not only that because it didn't damage my health at the time and was largely about attitude, failure to listen and bedside manner, I still don't think it would have been taken seriously. It wasn't petty to me - but I think others would view it that way. The power balance between doctor and patient shouldn't be underestimated in terms of how people feel about making complaints.
I think this is a real issue - there is a perception that doctors protect there own anyway, and that even when complaints are dealt with no action is really ever taken. There is a lack of trust in the system.
Anyway on a positive note - DH has been GP this morning. Won't go into details but he was worried about something, they thought it was something else, but did tests anyway. He is feeling a lot better as they came back fine as the doctor expected.
There are good doctors and bad doctors and there is room for improvement in the system which we should always be striving for, rather than throwing out every change before giving it a try. Some will fail as ideas, but some will improve things. I get annoyed at blanket negative responses to change within the NHS by NHS staff. Its as bad as people saying "all GPs are morons" imo.