*deemented Sat 22-Jan-11 14:03:43
Ohhh.. this old chesnut.
Yes, i call manshape Manshape because that's what he is. When my husband died... well.. he was my partner, we were a unit.. and manshape... well... it felt wrong to call him DP, although i did for a while. Then i found a word to dicribe him that i felt more comfortable using, so i do.
It's never meant as a derogatory term at all. He knows i call him that and he's fine with it - it amuses him greatly.
If people don't like it, then i'm sorry, but it's their problem. I'm not going to stop using it.
samstown - Manshape and i were together for a year when i was sixteen. He was my first love, and then life took us our seperate ways, and i met and married DH.
TBH - if people have a problem with anything i write i'd much rather they PM'd me or used the search facility then start yet another thread about it.
Gets a bit boring after a while.*