For the second week running, OH has just got home from a night out at 4 am. Last week he was in such a state, he got up out of bed twice, unable to find his way to the toilet. Waking me and our 1 year old DD.
background, OH is in a lot of debt, from loans taken out before we met. He works very long hours, and doesn't go out that often, as he simply can't afford it. Last week was meant to be a couple of beers with the boys, this week was a works night out. I've no problem with the going out side of thing, it's the fact that Sundays are our only day together as a family, as he works a sat( with a day off mid week), and him getting home at 4am, pretty much ruins any family day we have.
Last Sunday he got up, was sick, then had to go back to bed. I spent our Sundays trying to entertain DD, get the food shop done, the washing ready forbthe week, and seeing the in laws, while OH will sit quietly suffering.
I can count on one hand the amount of nights out ive had this year, and if I know that DD is at home and I have the day with her the next day, I take it easy, so that I am fresh the next day. I just couldn't get home at 4am, as it would be unfair to OH and DD.
I think OH sees it as a chance to have a blowout, as he doesn't do it that often. I just wondered if other people in the same situation do the same thing?