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AIBU?

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to think my OH is a lazy shit?

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themightyskim · 08/10/2011 09:51

for the scene setting me and my OH both work full time, I can leave my job and come home at the end of the day, he however often has an hour or two of work in an evening

He has a daughter who is 4, we have two dogs, one is a large breed and Im pregnant

so...... I do all the cleaning, I cook for him and my SD, I get her stuff washed and ironed and ready for school, I get her bathed and ready for bed, I do all the shopping. The big dog sheds so much hair I have to brush and mop every day and he slobbers so I have to clean that up several times a day too - OH only has to soak the dog food ready for the next day and clean the yard after the dogs

Hes totally stopped doing these jobs and its pissing me off to the max, I feel like im doing everything around this house, I mention it, we argue a bit and he might if Im super lucky clean the yard up, do that nights dishes and put a load of washing in, then the next day im back to square one

AIBU to think that if we live together he should muck in with the jobs or am I being a big hormonal bitch?

OP posts:
wantadvice · 08/10/2011 16:38

Absolutely, bankersmum. Completely agree. I don't want it to appear to be having a go at teh op but she's a classic example. Lot's of "lol"s from her about her situation and then gratefulness that her oh has now agreed to mop the floor for the first time in months. We have so far to go as a society....

scottishmummy · 08/10/2011 19:10

hes mopping floor first time in months?lazy selfish chancer
his pg partner is scopping dog shite,having endured a pg health scare and youre grateful he mops?

seriously you both need as serious attitudinal change

what you have to do next is agree how to allocate tasks and share chores when you are on on mat leave. and dont give up work to be housewife after baby comes.or you'll be mopping floors and shovelling dog shite ever more

best wishes to you when baby comes.hope you have a happy and stressfree pregnancy.

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