AIBU to be upset that my mum doesn't want us to stay anymore?

[frutilla]

I live abroad and visit UK once a year with my family, (DH and 2 DC under 4) and stay at my mum's house. She has 2 spare bedrooms. Now she tells me she doesn't want that anymore and we must rent an apartment. This is all unexpected and I feel depressed about it...

[frutilla]

Thanks Tadlow,....well, feeling a bit peeved again today as last week she let slip that this couple who come over from eastern europe to do work for her and various neighbours (handyman and housework) are going to stay in the basement (my old rooms). So the grieving thing and pushing away doesn't really hold. They can stay but we can't. And they make a hell of a lot more noise, lovely people but the guy is the size of me and DH together and repair works consist of a lot of mess and noise, quite invasive even when just doing gardening. They use the kitchen too....