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To wonder what the govt has planned to punish those NOT on benefits?

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Glitterknickaz · 09/09/2011 16:41

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This is not the first time cutting benefits has been suggested as a punishment. How are the government proposing to punish parents who don't tackle truancy efficiently that aren't on benefits exactly? Just like the assertion that the rioters should lose benefits, yes because they were ALL on benefits weren't they? Hmm

Once again the government fuels the totally untrue daily mail esque belief that all of society's ills lie at the feet of benefits claimants. Apparently they are the root of all evil, eh? Hmm

Not one of the policies publicised has said what would happen to those who do not claim benefits.

Money designed for basic sustenance should not be removed imo. At the end of the day it is the children that will suffer from these measures.

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LineRunner · 11/09/2011 15:52

K999 You had (and have) compassion, I think you mean.

CardyMow · 11/09/2011 15:53

YES, I class myself as a person with a disability.

LadyOfTheManor · 11/09/2011 15:53

Loudlass, my posts have referred to the majority of people who haven't paid into the pot, not those receiving "top ups".

Drink wine, gamble, smoke...do as you (those on benefits full time, not you personally) wish, just don't expect other tax payers to foot the bill, then come around crying that you can't afford new school shoes for your dc come September.

K999 · 11/09/2011 15:53

That's indeed what I mean!! Bloody iPad...Grin

LadyOfTheManor · 11/09/2011 15:54

Despite causing offence (and not meaning to) I'll rephrase;

I presume you have retrained in something that those with those particular disabilities can do?

tethersend · 11/09/2011 15:54

Haven't we done this one already? Only I have to go out and get hideously drunk in a bit.

CardyMow · 11/09/2011 15:56

But they are ALL still 'benefits', LOTM. Out of the same 'pot' of tax money. I AM on benefits full time. Tax credits are still benefits. And due to my childcare costs - I will be receiving MORE benefits while I am working than I did when I wasn't.

LadyOfTheManor · 11/09/2011 15:56

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Cocoflower · 11/09/2011 15:57

"And can I also add that sometimes these 'luxuries' are essential to parents. ....get some "me time" and a laugh."

This has made me livid
How about the rest of us who don't get a penny in benefits and can only scrape by, not even affording food sometimes?
Where the hell are our luxuires? Who should I expect to fund my "luxuries" then? Can you?

I would love a holiday

MarginallyNarkyPuffin · 11/09/2011 15:57

I'd love to live in your world LOTM. All education is equal and there are no social factors involved and employment is available for all those who want it and there is no disability discrimination.

On the plus side, if you're 24, you have time to grow up.

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CardyMow · 11/09/2011 15:57

Are YOU going to pay my course costs and childcare for when I am at college? NO? Then exactly HOW do you propose I fund that, when I get NO reduction in course fees?

Empjusa · 11/09/2011 15:58

"How on earth do people survive in the countries that don't have a spoon feeding system?"

Do you really need us to answer this for you??

tethersend · 11/09/2011 15:58

"Well with no job to get up for in the morning I presume lots of people will be."

How do you know I don't have to get up tomorrow?

LadyOfTheManor · 11/09/2011 15:59

I'm frigging 25 for one.

THere are ALWAYS threads on here going on about how state and public schools are equal and are both great and both churn out such excellent species of humans.

tethersend · 11/09/2011 16:00

Chop,chop LOTM, the gin won't drink itself.

I have to sit in the park hurling abuse at passers-by at six.

LadyOfTheManor · 11/09/2011 16:00

Tether, I meant the "lots of people" I referred to.

tethersend · 11/09/2011 16:01

Oooh, oohh, is your PhD in pedagogy?

K999 · 11/09/2011 16:01

Well, I for one will have a good few glasses of wine tonight and will also be getting up for work in the morning. Cos I'm hard.....

tethersend · 11/09/2011 16:02

I think we're suppose to have a fight in the bandstand at 7, K999. Get a move on.

LadyOfTheManor · 11/09/2011 16:02

No it's not.

MarginallyNarkyPuffin · 11/09/2011 16:02

Don't worry. One year won' make that much of a difference Smile

cecilyparsley · 11/09/2011 16:05

How on earth do people survive in the countries that don't have a spoon feeding system?

from a woman who was born with a silver spoon in her mouth...
oh the irony Grin

CardyMow · 11/09/2011 16:05

Grin at MarginallyNarkyPuffin. I was younger than LOTM when my DD was diagnosed with asd. I was younger than LOTM when I was diagnosed with epilepsy. I am now only 30. I did not have such a biased, uncaring view of the world even at 20.

I had seen the difference that having money can do. In one of my foster homes, I was sent to the local sink school while the FC's dc were sent to private school. The quality of education they received was VASTLY better than mine.

I do not begrudge anyone when they have inherited money etc, I just accept that they were LUCKY and PRIVELIGED to be born into that situation. I accept that I was not so lucky or priveliged, and I try to make the best of the life I have been given.

I just find it SHOCKING that someone in such a priveliged, wealthy position, can make such sweeping generalisations about a whole section of society, when they claim to be educated up to a very high level, surely before making such sweeping generalisations, LOTM should spend a month living in the shoes of those people she seems to look down on. My standard of education was nowhere near as high as LOTM's, yet I accept that there are all sorts of reasons why people might be on benefits.

Kladdkaka · 11/09/2011 16:06

*Oh and for the record, without looking at statistics, I'm going to have a stab in the dark and suggest the main benefit claimants are;

Men aged between 18-30
Single parents (more than likely women under the age of 28)*

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