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This has just been posted on facebook about me. So ANGRY.

112 replies

SingingInTheDeadOfNight · 06/09/2011 14:13

Forgive the name change. This has just been posted on facebook:

"you know when some peoples kids just piss you off and you dont know why lol, there is someone on my friends list with a kid like this who I wont name but hes so irritating and pulls the stupidest ugly faces and his mum things hes hilarious. Everytime I see him I just want to tell her how fecking annoying he is."

so anyway someone put underneath that:

"aww thats a bit mean lol but give us a clue lol"

so she replies

"well for a start who the fuck would call their kid david lol"

ok that outs me straight away. We used to be good friends in school but have only spoken via facebook once since then. I cant believe what shes put and that nobody has pulled her up on it. I feel sick. DS is only 7 and I can't vbelieve some bitch is going around talking about him in such a horrible spiteful way.

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ZZZenAgain · 06/09/2011 14:30

then she wanted you to see it, she's just being a cow. Who knows why? No one else will know who she is referring to though I don't think

adamschic · 06/09/2011 14:30

Xpost, oh please, stop it. You wouldn't keep someone that said all this crap as a fb friend, surely.

MmeLindor. · 06/09/2011 14:30

If it is about you then she is both stupid and insensitive, not to mention cruel to say that about your boy.

Cutting reply needed.

Something along the lines of "He may irritate you, but he has better manners already than you will ever learn."

BananaMontana · 06/09/2011 14:31

God what a life. A friend told you she'd found your son irritating blah blah blah. Facebook is the devil's work. Sort out your real friends and ditch facebook.

PerryCombover · 06/09/2011 14:32

facebook is always full of this stuff

delete

ShoutyHamster · 06/09/2011 14:32

Just reply on her wall: 'Wow, I'm sitting here mouth open - I literally cannot believe that I never realised before what a nasty little bitch you are! Still, at least you've made it clear to everyone now which is very thoughful of you - so, lol to you too, and bye-bye, good luck with your new slimmed-down 'friends' list :)'

And defriend Grin

nickschick · 06/09/2011 14:32

Obviously she is jealous of you.
To scour your fb pics when you and her dont even get on is weird.
To make comments about any child is weird.

Defriend her immediately.

Shes a twat.

picnicbasketcase · 06/09/2011 14:35

'Everytime' she sees him? She'd have to go and seek the pictures out in order to get annoyed by him. And how does she know you find him pulling faces amusing if she's not seen you with him? Just going by photo comments on FB?

Cowbag. Delete.

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antshouse · 06/09/2011 14:37

So her brother was called David. Well beneath the comment about 'who would call a kid David' add 'your mother.'

And delete her.

SpawnChorus · 06/09/2011 14:37

OOh yes..what MmeLindor says.

picnicbasketcase · 06/09/2011 14:37

Seriously, how can anyone find a child annoying from a picture? You can't judge someone's personality from a photo on a screen - she's clearly insane.

pigletmania · 06/09/2011 14:38

I would delete and block, she sounds nasty. Nothing wrong with the name David, good solid name. Good thing she is not my friend, what the he'll would she say about my dd (sn)

SouthernFriedTofu · 06/09/2011 14:48

Xpost, oh please, stop it. You wouldn't keep someone that said all this crap as a fb friend, surely.

adamschick maybe if you were one of those people who need 100000 fb friends you would... Hmm

WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 06/09/2011 14:54

'Wow, I'm sitting here mouth open - I literally cannot believe that I never realised before what a nasty little bitch you are! Still, at least you've made it clear to everyone now which is very thoughful of you - so, lol to you too, and bye-bye, good luck with your new slimmed-down 'friends' list

That's brilliant!

scrambedeggs · 06/09/2011 14:55

sometimes i cant actually believe that mothers of children actually care about this FB stuff. Surely if you are a mother, you have some degree of maturity, however small and well hidden. Why on earth can you not just either delete her or not. Why all the blimmin angst about nothing

WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 06/09/2011 14:56

scrambedeggs I think it's because even though it's just facebook, the comments are still as hurtful as if they were said face to face.

MmeLindor. · 06/09/2011 14:59

It is easy said, that FB is shite and who bothers about this stuff, but that is actually quite a nasty and hurtful comment.

If some says something mean about me, I can laugh it off bit be mean about my kids, and I wouldn't be laughing.

BananaMontana · 06/09/2011 15:02

I feel like I've fallen into a vortex of thirteen-year-old-girl nonsense.

RedOnion · 06/09/2011 15:04

This makes no sense. I'm saying wind up.

If you haven't SEEN HER SINCE SCHOOL and have ONLY SPOKEN ON FACEBOOK since then, it clearly CANNOT be about your child. Not sure how much clearer to be? Confused

SouthernFriedTofu · 06/09/2011 15:08

No redonion the op is now saying this woman looks at pictures of her son online and tells her friends how annoying he is. But she has kept her on fb anyway Hmm

ExitPursuedByATroll · 06/09/2011 15:12

She gets annoyed by a photograph???

WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 06/09/2011 15:12

BananaMontana It might sound like 13 yo nonsense because it's on facebook, but if you take that aspect away then it's a really nasty comment. I don't think it being on facebook makes it any less hurtful.

WhereYouLeftIt · 06/09/2011 15:17

What antshouse said.