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This has just been posted on facebook about me. So ANGRY.

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SingingInTheDeadOfNight · 06/09/2011 14:13

Forgive the name change. This has just been posted on facebook:

"you know when some peoples kids just piss you off and you dont know why lol, there is someone on my friends list with a kid like this who I wont name but hes so irritating and pulls the stupidest ugly faces and his mum things hes hilarious. Everytime I see him I just want to tell her how fecking annoying he is."

so anyway someone put underneath that:

"aww thats a bit mean lol but give us a clue lol"

so she replies

"well for a start who the fuck would call their kid david lol"

ok that outs me straight away. We used to be good friends in school but have only spoken via facebook once since then. I cant believe what shes put and that nobody has pulled her up on it. I feel sick. DS is only 7 and I can't vbelieve some bitch is going around talking about him in such a horrible spiteful way.

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eurochick · 06/09/2011 14:18

It sounds like she is talking about someone whose kid she sees regularly. how else would she know about the mother's reaction?

It could be another David, as others have said.

But if you don't like her, just defriend her.

kelly2000 · 06/09/2011 14:18

Report her to facebook, then defriend her and block her. But if you have not seen her since school, how can it be you? Why would you want to be friends with someone who posts thta kind of thing anyway?

scrambedeggs · 06/09/2011 14:18

but she isnt bullying a 7 year old, a 7 year old wont have her on his friends list, a 7 year old isnt even allowed to be on FB.

a) you dont even know its about you
b) you can easily block and delete and move on without it affecting you ever again
c) kid in question wont even be aware

case closed

MadamDeathstare · 06/09/2011 14:18

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Psammead · 06/09/2011 14:18

It makes no sense, does it?

David is a perfectly ordinary name, surely?

GalaxyGuzzler · 06/09/2011 14:19

I'm slightly confused. Am I right in thinking the only contact you have is through facebook? or do you mean you see them in RL and only occasional contact on facebook?
If you only contact on facebook how would they know DS in order to be able to accuse him of being annoying?
Sorry if I'm just being a bit thick!Confused

BananaMontana · 06/09/2011 14:19

Hide for now, delete in a month's time.
(Otherwise she'll get oxygen from you thinking it's your son she's being vile about.)

BupcakesandCunting · 06/09/2011 14:19

Perhaps OP has pictures of her son pulling faces on her FB, then perhaps she comments saying how funny she finds her DS? Confused

I would still delete the knuckle-dragging foam mouth though.

ZZZenAgain · 06/09/2011 14:19

well maybe if this seeing the dc regularly and so on doesn't apply to OP, the phrase "who the f would call their dc David anyway?" apparently does. So that is still a nasty dig

SouthernFriedTofu · 06/09/2011 14:20

Hmm can i say troll, if the op actually contradicts itself?

FlamingFannyDrawers · 06/09/2011 14:20

Are you certain its about you/your child? Very nasty thing to say, I'd delete her regardless of its about you anyway. She sounds like a cow.

ViviPru · 06/09/2011 14:20

does this thread win the prize for most identical simultaneous posts or what?!

HidingInTheUndergrowth · 06/09/2011 14:21

I'm not sure how this can be about you. How can she know your child makes faces of any sort if she has not seen you since school? David is a pretty common name and from this post I would have thought it is someone she sees regularly.

Though I would still defriend her as she is clearly a pretty unpleasent person.

FilthyDirtyHeathen · 06/09/2011 14:21

I am confused. If you have only spoken to her once on facebook since school, how has she met your son????????

MangoMonster · 06/09/2011 14:21

Defriend her. It's probably not about you but it's a nasty attitude, she sounds like a ridiculous bitch.

LydiaWickham · 06/09/2011 14:22

Defriend, ignore any contact from her. Accept she's not a nice person and if it wasn't your family she was slagging off, it'd be someone else. Eventually, all the 'nice' people will defriend her both on facebook and in the real world, she'll be left surrounded by complete arses.

BTW - Is she single/childless? Jealous much?

lachesis · 06/09/2011 14:22

Iggy and delete. She's a chav.

picnicbasketcase · 06/09/2011 14:22

Seems quite obvious that she's not not talking about you, but she sounds rather unpleasant anyway.

Tee2072 · 06/09/2011 14:22

So delete her, block her, stop being her friend.

It's FB. It's not real life.

KAZAMM · 06/09/2011 14:25

she sounds vile and so does her pal who wanted a clue. Delete her because life is too short for crap like this.

lockets · 06/09/2011 14:26

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ViviPru · 06/09/2011 14:27

love it lockets

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SingingInTheDeadOfNight · 06/09/2011 14:27

I know she's on about me because when we last saw each other we were not on very good terms. I have a lot of photos on there of DS and someone else told me that this woman had said she'd been looking at them and finds DS irritating a while ago but I left it as couldn't be sure there wasn't a bit of shit stirring going on. However she also mentioned that she couldn't believe I'd called DS David as that was her brother's name and she always insisted I had a thing for him and was sure that's why I'd called him David.

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adamschic · 06/09/2011 14:29

It's not even about you if she doesn't see your kids. She sound like a thicko anyway so delete.

RealityVonCrapp · 06/09/2011 14:30

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