to feel like a performing monkey?? not for sensitive ears!

[natandjacob]

DP has a very high sex drive, he could have it every hour of the day if possible. I, on the other hand, dont. Dont get me wrong, I like sex as much as the next person but not to that extent.

The problem is that I feel like no matter what I do, and how many different positions we try he always wants more. He's never satisfied!

How often does everyone else do it? how experimental are you? It's really stressing me out cos I feel like a performing sex monkey :( He wants to plan it all the time and never just wants to leave it and see what happens. He gropes me at every given oppurtunity and complains when i get undressed in the dark. I know a lot of women would give their right arm for all of this but I just feel under so much pressure to keep him satisfied, am I being unreasonable?

my dear girl, I do so feel for you. A friend has a hubby like that. for him the need for sex is insecurity, it fills some gap emotionally in him. I am not sure if it is not a form of expression that he cannot voice in other ways. If his behaviour makes you feel this way, and it shouldn't, have you considered therapy for you both to help find a communication route that does not involve you feeling so compromised.

Smug - this is mumsnet - I would be severely flamed ... tempting ....

Is this the same DH who doesn't want you to wear a bikini for swimming because of any possible attention ? But he's like this at home? Sorry but it all sounds very controlling.

Sounds a tool tbh

tell him it makes you uncomfortable and that he must rein it in

Dear God

Are there really women, in 2011, who have to cover up and/or dress in ugly pjyamas to protect themselves from the "attentions" of their self-entitled pricks of a husband ?

I feel very, very sorry for you