Bus pass - all well and good in the holidays, but I have to travel my dc to school by bus. Which means paying for 2 buses before 9.30am.
Can't do care work, as my epilepsy is not (and according to my Neuro, never will be) fully controlled. Don't get DLA so can't claim disabiltiy element of WTC. Sucks eggs. All I want is a 20-25 hr/wk shop job that I can get childcare for.
Online shopping - got fed up when they kept substituting my shopping for random things - pack of dates when you ask for grapes, turkey instead of chicken (WTF?! why not a bigger/smaller pack of chicken!). And the best one ever - Tena lady instead of maternity pads. So easier to go myself, and during term time, I've spent the bus fare getting the dc to school anyway.
And I'm NOT too lazy to stack shelves - in fact one of my previous jobs was doing just that. I was doing 6x 10hr night shifts a week, while having severe epileptic seizures 2-3 times a week, while looking after my (then) 3 dc during the day and surviving on 3 hrs sleep a day as my DP (at the time) was working during the day. My dc were then aged only 6.5yo, 2.4yo and 11 months old, when I started. I ended up getting the sack due to having to go home halfway through a shift once too often when I'd had a seizure on the shop floor. If that's lazy, then I'd like to fucking see what HARD work is like, cheers.
Muddlin - Unfortunately, I'm in the SE. Which is why everything is costing me a fucking fortune, but am tied to my town by a family law court order, so am not allowed to leave here for another 9 years. (Till DS1 is 18yo).
My shopping for £130 - that includes all cleaning stuff, nappies, bathroom products, and buying PROPER food - i.e. not turkey twizzlers or chicken nuggets, I make sure all my dc have their 5 portions of fruit and veg each day, and that is what is costing me the money.
I'm just crossing my fingers that if I get an interview at Waitrose (they have ONE job going), that they don't ask me to explain why I have had 3 years out of work. "Oh, sorry, I was busy having seizures for the first year, they settled down a bit, then I caught swine flu and ended up with pneumonia, then I had a baby" PROBABLY won't go down too well....