So why is more NOT being done to teach dc a work ethic? My dc are not exactly from the 'top of the pile' in life advantages - I was a teen mum with no qualifications, am now a single parent, used to have drink problems (now teetotal), parent on benefits (at mo), blah blah blah. Doesn't mean they aren't being taught that if you want something, you have to work for it. If other dc aren't getting taught it at home, why don't they teach it in these crappy citizenship lessons that they have now?
What do you mean by 'create a job for yourself'? How are you meant to do that if you have no money to start up with? Not many people who are in a cycle of deprivation are going to have the first idea how to write a business plan, or even what one is, and no bank is going to lend money (not that any of them are any more) to someone who has maybe never worked, with some pie-in-the-sky idea of running their own business. And even for ones that COULD run a business, who would do their accounts, or work out their taxes, if they weren't capable, and they hadn't earnt enough in their first year, say, to hire an accountant?
Most people on benefits, who have realised that they can't get out of their situation without attending college, are, frankly, fucked. There IS no help to go to college, if you do a FT course, your IS/JSA is stopped (so how do you feed your dc...), you can't get a student loan unless you are doing a degree (most people, like me, need to sit their bloody GCSE's first), and the course fees are totally prohibitive. Believe me, I've looked, I just wanted my English and Maths GCSE's, as I'm being turned down for checkout jobs. Despite having been an assistant manager of a shop in the distant past, now it seems to be a requirement for cleaning bloody toilets (that's NOT a joke BTW, a toilet cleaner job required both - no point in me even bothering to apply!). Can you guess how much? £280, plus any childcare on top...That comes so easily for someone getting by on next to fuck all.