The rioters don't care what the family think or want, the people are angry due to many reasons, the government cuts, the poor getting poorer while the rich get richer, the police seeming to be above the law and victimising the poor while turning a blind eye to the actions of the rich.
The riots are not in this mans name, his death was simply the spark that caused the pent up rage to manifest.
And I don't mind saying I don't trust the police, they have never given me any cause to trust them at all, they raided my family home on the phone call of a family enemy and took all our computers, TVs etc away for checking and didn't bring them back, they just told us we had x amount of time to collect them from the storehouse outside of London otherwise they would go to auction, that was a pain in the arse to try and get transport just to get our stuff back, we don't all have cars and the cash to spare for fuel to get our belongings back, they stop and search my boyfriend simply because they don't like the look of him, he's never done anything illegal in his life, and in the area I live in 2 people have been shot dead in the past 5 years, both killed by police, both where unarmed and unlawfully killed and in both cases no one was held to account.
What have the police done to earn my trust? when I got attacked by a drunk man in the street while standing at a bus stop directly across the road from the police station at 8pm did any of them come out and help? no of course they didn't, respect needs to be earned they need to do something other then alienate the residents.
Police only treat people with respect and like to be seen patrolling in the nice areas, they treat us poor in the inner city like scum when you see them that is, which is hardly ever. and if you treat someone like shit they will act accordingly, it's not rocket science.