AIBU to wonder if Facebook makes far more people miserable than happy.

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I have a facebook account; it is quite handy for keeping in touch with far flung friends etc. However, I must be turning into a miserable old bag because I find it increasingly hard hearing about others triumphs (with the exception of new baby photo's, I enjoy those!) as I end up feeling bad about my life and choices.

Present angst is caused by holiday photo's as my carefully planned holiday contained a few incidents that, while not ruining things for the kids, led to DH especially getting very tired and stressed when he really needed a break. My friends, in contrast seem to have had amazingly wonderful times, judging by the hundreds of lovely photos posted.

I also find it difficult when achievements (this week it is exam results) of clever talented children are joyously proclaimed. My lot are a mixed bunch academically due to assorted special needs but I would feel uncomfortable listing even their fancy dress prizes!

If I post on Facebook I tend to try and be funny in a self deprecating way, tell me I'm not the only one?

I can't bring myself to step away.

definitely agree with that youdothemath

People use FB to show off with or tell people when they're about to go to the toilet or have a coffee. I hate it. Really truely hate it. I don't even know why I have my account still activated. I guess I am just nosey!

If you do not enjoy facebook and use it to its full potential you should have a look at who your friends are.

I have family and friends that live far and wide and enjoy their photos and clips of info.

I also have family and friends that live in England and enjoy being able to keep in touch without any pressure.

If you find it boring and pointless maybe it is you or your friends that make it that way.

It's a mixed bag. I like looking at other friends' happy times and hearing their uplifting and exciting times, I like being able to commiserate when they have hard times. I feel sad if friends are getting together and I wasn't invited, so it can be a bit exclusive - often people don't seem to realise that posting photos of events can be hurtful if not all your friends were able to attend. There are far more positives than negatives in my view, though, and I love how you can keep in touch with people you would never normally have managed to stay in contact with from all areas of your life.

I have used flickr for a few years and much prefer that but they are very similar. It is more about uploading photos, you share photos, add them to groups, comment on others photos and you have the facility to send private messages. Some of my flickr friends are also on fb