to wonder what is so wrong with being 'judgey'?

[BornInAfrica]

As far as I can tell it's human nature. If you deny that you judge you are at best deluded and at worst a bit of a liar. Judging is our inbuilt self defence mechanism surely?

I think people who claim to 'not judge' are basically spineless twats who are too scared to voice an opinion in case someone doesn't like them afterwards.

Erm - Linerunner didn't start this thread. I am pretty sure it is you africa who is "smouldering over fuck all". But then I don't think you have very much in your life so it is to be expected. You have been extremely nasty and offensive on some posts, seemingly just for the attention or reaction it would create. Given that I think Linerunners assesment of you is probably fairly accurate and one shared by a lot of other MNetters.

I do not know what you gain from from behaving in this way but do feel you might be better off stopping it and finding a more positive focus.

judging is fine, its how society is kept in order to some degree

look at the 50s when it was frowned upon big time to get pregnant outside marriage - there was no where like the number of single girls getting up the duff as there are today,or living "in sin" - maybe that wasnt totally a bad thing.

i expect i am judged daily for being overweight - thats fine, i am comfortable in the knowledge i am intelligent and have a well paying job, as well as a husband who loves me. Judge away , I do

Absolutely sleepindogz

And single girls in the 50s who were bloody minded and indecent enough to have sexual desires were quite rightly relieved of said children immediately or forced to marry the man who they had a fumble with and no desire to see again. Served them right. None of this stupid non judgemental advice about contraception or making a good life for yourself and your child outside of wedlock .

at the over exaggerated '' could you not think of the words to express yourself?

That put the posters in their place didn't it?