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Original poster

to be furious

101 replies

fwa · 22/07/2011 17:45

I had to go to a work event today (I usually don't work Fridays) and so I got my sister to babysit. I came home half an hour ago to find her absolutely hammered and my brother who she clearly brought with passed out on the floor. They've drunk 3 bottles of wine and some amaretto by the looks of it. DD has just been playing with herself in her room whilst they've been getting sloshed and goodness know what would have happened had dd had a problem.

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FuzzpigFourFiveSix · 22/07/2011 17:46

Fuck no YANBU!

JarethTheGoblinKing · 22/07/2011 17:47

Really? Shock

What did you do?

PhishFoodAddiction · 22/07/2011 17:47

Bloody hell, no YADDNBU. Shock

Andrewofgg · 22/07/2011 17:48

Are these people adults, or at least of adult years?

CurrySpice · 22/07/2011 17:48

Oh my lord!! Shock

No, YANBU!

thefirstmrsrochester · 22/07/2011 17:48

YANBU!
Thats horrendous!

Original poster
fwa · 22/07/2011 17:49

He's 18 and she's 22

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Roo83 · 22/07/2011 17:49

That is horrendous! I would be absolutely livid and never be able to trust them again. Hope your dd's ok

sleepindogz · 22/07/2011 17:49

what ages are they all

crazynanna · 22/07/2011 17:50

Well out of order!

NoobytheWaspSlayer · 22/07/2011 17:51

Shock Shock Shock

Good lord that is horrendous. I would be furious.

Have you kicked them out/bollocked them?

Andrewofgg · 22/07/2011 17:52

No excuse for either of them, but especially for her because she was the one you asked. You won't do that again. I can only sympathise. Families, who'd have 'em?

Original poster
fwa · 22/07/2011 17:52

I "revived" my brother and kicked them out, they weren't in any state to have a proper talk about it.

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fered · 22/07/2011 17:58

I think you did well, I'd have had difficult controlling my rage. Their behaviour is beyond terrible and when they've sobered up I wouldn't be shy about telling them either

yearningforthesun · 22/07/2011 17:58

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SetTheRayToJerry · 22/07/2011 18:00

wtf?! how old is DD? And what do they have to say for themselves?!

TheBolter · 22/07/2011 18:00

How old is your dd?

Original poster
fwa · 22/07/2011 18:01

dd is 7

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SetTheRayToJerry · 22/07/2011 18:01

7?!

Holy shit. So sorry fwa.

Original poster
fwa · 22/07/2011 18:04

From what she's told me they were alright in the morning andn they did give her lunch at 12 and then the drinking started

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ChristinedePizan · 22/07/2011 18:04
Shock

God I don't know what I'd do if I were you. What are you going to do?

I suspect this is going to be a universal YANBU.

Original poster
fwa · 22/07/2011 18:11

ChristinedePizan- I've thrown them out and I'll decide what to say/do to them tonight

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IvyAndGold · 22/07/2011 18:12

fwa YADNBU!! this is just shocking, who in their right mind thinks that would be ok?!

I hate hearing about young people doing this when they have DC in their charge. I have enough trouble with other people's 'young mum syndrome', without a pair of jokers like these fueling it Angry

TherapeuticVino · 22/07/2011 18:20

Much as I would completely and utterly bollock both of them, I think you should really lay it on your sister - your brother was just an idiot "friend" but SHE accepted the responsibility of babysitting..... I am so sorry I would just be going mental. At least your little girl is ok - probably a nice time to discuss expectations and why you're furious with them and proud of her for being sensible this afternoon.....

YA obviously NBA

Mush123 · 22/07/2011 18:30

Hello Everyone, I have just joined mumsnet because I have a question and thought you guy's would know the answer.