to think that a lot of the time people should just say what they feel....

[madhousewife]

...and not get so f'n pissy about it.

Okay, I'll be the first to admit I am guilty of this, that's probably why it bothers me so much.

But if someone does something to annoy you, why is it so hard to say, "Sorry, that annoys me" and get on with your life rather than agree to it, and then RAGE behind their back and say how UNREASONABLE they are?

we're British

or most people are on here.

Ha!..I agree..but it depends on the person,context and moment...I do tend to speak my mind...but sometimes I'm just kind to people who I regard are either slightly insane, my boss,partner ,children or violent :)