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to wonder exactly what this woman meant by saying this?

9 replies

Bogeyface · 07/07/2011 09:46

A young woman with a daughter at the DCs school has just had her 5th baby by her boyfriend. She is in her very early twenties and he is 10 years older.

This is his 14th child, the others being from atleast 2 other women and possibly more. A woman that I vaguely know, the mother of DSs classmate was gossiping about it this morning asking did I know about it etc? As it happens I did because the young woman concerned takes the younger ones to the same playgroup we went to and she has talked about her DCs half siblings. The fact that they are both happy that he doesnt see or support them is another thread entirely....

The mother at school was positively gleeful at this gossip and then said "14 children! He has got around a bit, still he is Mediterranean, what can you expect?"

Are Mediterranean men particularly fertile then or are they well known for fathering lots of children they later refuse to support? Or is she being, as I suspect, racist?!

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Geepers · 07/07/2011 09:47

Who cares?

fernier · 07/07/2011 09:47

I think she sounds like she was just making a joke to hide her discomfort at the many many children he has.

BornInAfrica · 07/07/2011 09:48

Mediterranean is not a race so she can't possibly be accused of racism. Dull and stupid would be a much more likely assessment of her condition.

Pagwatch · 07/07/2011 09:51

I expect she just opened her mouth and stuff fell out.
Is it ponder worthy?

Hammy02 · 07/07/2011 09:54

I don't understand the mediterranean comment. Regardless of where he is from, unless he can support all of his children without any handouts, it is disgusting of him to behave like that.

Bogeyface · 07/07/2011 09:56

It was just one of those comments that leaves you with a "WTF?!"

And i agree, it is disgusting of him to behave like that wherever he was born.

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mx5hairdresser · 08/07/2011 23:26

presumably she was just referring to the fact that southern europeans tend to be far more liberal with attitudes to sex and that many are catholics so would not use condoms?

CogitoErgoSometimes · 09/07/2011 07:37

YABU... 'Mediterranean' = 'swarthy latin lover'. Don't you read Mills & Boon? Wink

hairfullofsnakes · 09/07/2011 07:49

Really mx5hairdresser? That's complete bollocks, total and utter rubbish! To have fourteen children of which most he doesn't see has nothing to do with him being Mediterranean and everything to do with him being an irresponsible twat.

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