10.45 On a Sunday evening:
I am preparing lessons for tomorrow. Made sure DD had shower/washed hair by 9 and asked her to go to bed then.
10.30 DD and DH are still listening to a loud live concert. It disturbs my lesson prep and I know for a fact that family next door with two young children are disturbed if we play loud music. Mum next door is lovely, does not get enough sleep. I have told DH this many times. But, he persists in playing loud music at the time our DDs and DCs next door need to go to bed.
If I ever ask him to tunr down music because children don't sleep he says ' yes they can' that's it. No discussion or consideration of others. This evening hen I said DDneeded to go to bed as she had school tomorrow he said 'so what, you're a Victoran'
Loud music is fine.Just not after 9 if you have children in your house and next door. Especially if school next day. AIBU and unreasonable ?