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Someone I know very well not paid a penny in tax in years

154 replies

mrsmusic · 21/06/2011 22:17

Not really an AIBU... I have recently found out that BIL, who has been running two small businesses for a few years, has never registered these businesses, never had any books etc. It makes me so mad! We pay thousands in tax every year and to me it's stealing from society and making a mockery of those who do put in and contribute. If it wasn't someone so close, I'd have been on the phone to the tax people by now. I asked a close friend for their advice and it was to leave it, as what goes around comes around (e.g. he'll never be able to get a mortgage) and the tax office will catch up eventually. And I've nothing to gain from it, so I won't. WWYD? Honestly?

OP posts:
oneofthosedays · 21/06/2011 22:21

If it bothers you that much I would shop your BIL, but otherwise yes, leave karma to bite him in the bum at some point Grin, i'm sure it will!

mdowdall · 21/06/2011 22:49

Dont know why you are bothered OP. Live and let live.

Rootatoot · 21/06/2011 23:04

I would most definately NOT shop him. He's family. It might not be right but unless you want to cause a massive pile of stress, upset and heartache in your family, you should leave well alone. It doesn't directly affect you does it, as you say, even though you find it annoying because you pay tax.

Shallishanti · 21/06/2011 23:07

why not just talk to him?
I presume he uses the NHS and other public services, expects the police to come if he is burgled and so on?
Who does he think pays for all that?

harecare · 21/06/2011 23:09

Does he make enough profit to pay tax? If so point out that you're worried as your uncle's brother's cousin recently had a check from the tax man and ended up having to sell his house to pay the tax and avoid prison. You might just be annoyed that he's getting away with it, but the consequences of him getting caught aren't worth the risk, so be a helpful SIL and let him know your concern (rather than your anger)

ZillionChocolate · 21/06/2011 23:09

I am bothered and I've never met him. I'm bothered because it's not fair. Fine live and let live if other people are meeting their legal and moral obligations but tax is not optional.

PartySpanner · 21/06/2011 23:11

Arf at all the posters pushing you not to shop him.

Wonder how they'd feel about "BENEFIT CHEATS"?

Interesting

somethingwitty82 · 21/06/2011 23:17

Maybe she is bothering because when there are collective bills to be paid and losers shirk their cut then bigger cuts need to made child services/education/care of the elderly.

The likelihood is he will be able to save up a bigger deposit, self certify and if (unlikely) he is caught it wont b the full amount, crime pays

Grass his criminal ass!

/i bet this fucker is happy to use the NHS/police when it suits him, let him pay

ilovesooty · 21/06/2011 23:18

I'd shop him: family or not. It's fraud.

proudfoot · 22/06/2011 00:25

ZillionChocolate Tue 21-Jun-11 23:09:51

I am bothered and I've never met him. I'm bothered because it's not fair. Fine live and let live if other people are meeting their legal and moral obligations but tax is not opt

COMPLETELY AGREE.

JarethTheGoblinKing · 22/06/2011 00:28

I;ve known a few people that haven't registered businesses immediately and waited a year or so before they paid any tax, but once they did they paid retrospectively.

Sorry, but the posters who say that 'live and let live' and 'it's family' are wankers. These people are fraudulent tax dodgers. OP, give me their details and I'll frigging shop them Angry criminal fucks.

TheTruthNothingButTheTruth · 22/06/2011 00:29

Almost half the country indulges in this. The only honest tax payers are u slot on PAYE where the tax is deducted at source. Cash in hand types dont pay a penny in tax. Just look at the people at supermarket checkouts whip out hundreds in cash and pay in cash.

JarethTheGoblinKing · 22/06/2011 00:30

Half the country? Bollocks.

wtf are you on about wrt supermarket checkouts?

janey68 · 22/06/2011 07:09

Comletely agree with zillionchocolate

Obviously there are a few ignorant people on here who think fraud is ok. They must also think that it's just jolly bad luck that the MPs who fraudulently claimed expenses got caught and sentenced. I mean, live and let live, eh? Lets just ignore the legislation we don't happen to like. Perhaps I'll indulge in a bit of shoplifting this morning - I mean, I'm sure the rules don't really apply to me, and it's not really harming anyone is it...... Hmm

mateysmum · 22/06/2011 07:37

Shop him. I bet you can do it anonymously.

This man is being dishonest and committing an offence. Why should the rest of us pay his share?

Difficult when it's close family, but if he had committed a different kind of crime (eg. outright theft/violence) would you shop him?

usualsuspect · 22/06/2011 07:41

If this was a benefit cheat thread ...you would have had loads of shop him posts

It is indeed interesting

MaxSchreck · 22/06/2011 07:42

I'd shop him.

Peachy · 22/06/2011 07:42

Half the country? rubbish. DH is self emplyed and pays every penny he has to. Basic duty.

talk to him, say you don't think it's OK and you have heard so many stories about what happens when people catch up (and heck, I temped for a little while in the VAT office- it ain't pretty!). See what he says.

Peachy · 22/06/2011 07:42

And yes US I agree

CogitoErgoSometimes · 22/06/2011 07:44

If his 'businesses' are so small and irregular that he doesn't earn over the personal allowance, he might not be liable for tax. But if he's coining a regular income via his black economy operation, I'd alert HMRC and not lose a moment's sleep. One reason the Greek economy is so bad at the moment is because they're really bad at collecting tax. If everyone did what your BIL does, our economy would be even further in the shit than it already is.

janey68 · 22/06/2011 07:50

Fraud is fraud is fraud. End of. It's not up to the individual to decide that some fraud is 'less dishonest' than other fraud.

And as mateysmum says, where do you draw the line? What crimes are 'acceptable'?

I wonder how the people who condone this would feel if their own child got mugged or robbed on their way home, and the perpetrator was protected by family members who thought 'oh well, not much money was taken, no harm done'

The lack of social conscience among a few people is astonishing.

IShallWearMidnight · 22/06/2011 07:54

depending on what line of business he's in, there's a very good chance that HMRC will catch up with him in anycase - they have a list of different types of business they are targeting, and are working their way down it.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 22/06/2011 07:56

I'll make it easy for you and link to this <a class="break-all" href="https://online.hmrc.gov.uk/shortforms/form/TEH_IRF?dept-name=TEH&sub-dept-name=&location=39&origin=www.hmrc.gov.uk" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HMRC tax evasion form Completely anonymous.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 22/06/2011 07:57

'Confidential' rather than 'anonymous'... to be strictly accurate.

Reality · 22/06/2011 08:02

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