Dp's bday tomorrow and no present,and asked him what he would like?, to discover

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my present in the cupboard which is in a few days ,oh dear what can I buy and im really stuck.

after he said he did not want anything arghhh.

Birthday breakfast and bj?! Then get something during day? What's the budget?

Cook him breakfast, say the present is coming at dinner time and go shopping. Have the children done anything for him (if you have them obv)?

Failing that, shag him silly.

get on line quick and book tickets for something?

go on lastminute.com and get him one of those experience days or tickets to a gig that he might like there are lots of ideas on there and print it off and give to him in the morning :o

Corriefan and I are of one mind, evidently. It is a genius suggestion, do it .

I really, really can't make sense of your post. What? Present in the cupboard? What?

What's your budget?

sex. is that it?

do you think we are so shallow?

To be fair, I said sex and food.....

Who's we? How can you go wrong with breakfast innbed, sex and a (delayed) present? We've found the perfect formula!

He's spent £150 on me,mine was £40,now I will have to give him a bj for a starter then sex and then breakfast in bed and steak for tea lol(grin).

Op found a present for her, but her birthday is not for a dew days whereas his is tomorrow- her dp is obviously a lot more organised so she feels guilty!

The present is a digital camera and he has hid it in the cupbaord.

So you have bought him a present, but not as expensive as the one he's bought you? Does it matter?

corriefan and SuePurblybilt - my DH would think it was his birthday and Christmas if I offered him that

I have no present for him.

For my bday two days after his,he said no presents for him,and I said no presents for me,looked in cupbaord found ma present for me ,now feel bad.

Do it tomorrow Marshy, spread the love. Then freak him out by telling him t'interweb told you to do it

So what was £40 and what was £150?

Just thinking of his happy little face now.............maybe I will!

Hee hee! Do it! Let us know!

£40 was the OP's budget for her DP's present. The £150 is what her DP has spent on her digital camera.

so you agreed no presents, but he's got one for your birthday anyway, or at least you think he has, he could have bought it as a gift for himself!

go with the BJ, followed with a little pressie in the evening delivered with "I know we said no gifts, but I just thought you could do with...." (stick to your budget) or say "I know we said no gifts, but can I take you out for lunch?"

Have you got a card for him at least? (If not, get off MN and go make one!)