Thankfully we haven't any debt with MBNA, sounds like we may have had a lucky escape. Charging orders are like water off a ducks back i guess, it was horrible and terrifying when we had our charging order before, we turned up, spoke to the other sides solicitor (looked about 12) who was actually a very nice young man and when we asked if our home was at risk he said that if they tried to force sale over such a small amount they would be laughed out of court and that it was actually a human rights issue as we have a five year old child. So we have another company harranging us to do charging order, they filed a CCJ despite the fact that we sent relevent paperwork recorded delivery, they tried to tell us they hadnt' recieved so we shot them up the arse with, weell thats funny because the post office report that it was delivered two days before your deadline - got lost in their internal postal system. we only owe them £800 (only) but they are insisting on £50 a month or will go for charging order. To be fair, the solicitor guy i spoke to said to me, look, go for the charging order, they'll leave you alone, but thats not the point is it.
My poor DP is trying desperately to keep his building afloat, but the debt is crippling it because of course, he can't get any materials on account and we can't fund the bigger jobs, its beyond frustrating.
They say money is the root of all evil, well it is certainly the root of a lot of heart ache. Ive never ever been a materialistic person, i woudlnt mind if were paying the price for frivolity, im not saying this isnt our fault, we never managed our finances properly and adopted the head in the sand approach, well, not anymore - as Laurie said, im going to frow a pair and face this head on - they can take everything i have, but they can't take my fucking pride anymore, or my family!!! 