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to fuming that there has been no staff at the local secondary school since 3.30pm to take a serious complaint about bullying and harrasment

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tomhardyismydh · 27/05/2011 17:09

I walked past the house of a family who I do know but not terribly well and I am aware there middle daughter is being bullied.

outside was a group of girls looking in through their window shouting and jeering and swearing. I know the mum works some afternoons so I did intervien and tell the group of girls to leave them alone and move away from the house...in hindsight a bit silly of me as I did have my 5 yr old dd with me, but I wasn't in any way afraid forour safety or anything. Turns out the mum was home and she also then came out. They took the message and went away, but then followed me up the street shouting and swearing and berating me. It was laughable really but attempted to call non emergency police no just to show the little shits they can get away with behaving like this, but my bloody mobile died on me.

Anyway I have been trying to call the school since 3.30 and no one has been available to take my call, and have just now been told all senior management staff left at 4.15 and receptionist cant locate any other teaching staff. no one will be in over half term. now I m shocked that the head did not pick up his answer messages before leaving the school for a whole week, I had left one message at 3.30 and one at 4pm. I find it hard to even believe the head of a secondary school would even finish at 4.15.

Im tempted to call the non emergancy no again to give the message to the school this not acceptable, but Im sure this is very little the police would even be able to do.

also I want to say bunch of little bitches how horrible for a group of girls to behave like this!!!!!

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TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 09:11

morning claig. Have a Brew

Goblinchild · 29/05/2011 09:12

menmedia.co.uk/oldhamadvertiser/news/s/511594_two_travellers_camps_could_be_established_before_the_years_out

Yes, the travellers called it a site, so I apologise for using the word camp. I outreached at the site in Ada st for two years.

claig · 29/05/2011 09:13

Morning, TheFlyingOnion. Thank you, I need a coffee.

Goblinchild · 29/05/2011 09:15

No, I'm not anti-Roma or anti-traveller or anti-black or anti-SN or anti-Jew or anti-communist or anti-gay. Or a prospective member of the BNP.

However bessimo and I have had other encounters that have ended in a similar fashion, so I'm fairly sure how this one is likely to end too.

TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 09:18

In that case, GC, I wouldn't bother establishing your credentials. Sounds like it won't make much difference to Beesimo.

And we believe you Smile

beesimo · 29/05/2011 09:20

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TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 09:21

wtf???

I admit, I've got the giggles now Hmm

beesimo · 29/05/2011 09:34

I am glad I amused you Onion my mate Darky a Irish traveller is parked up on our top field she has a lovely burn mark on her arm from when her family were burnt out whan she was 4 would you like to see it?

Soul Murder is when you strip someone of their self esteem, self worth and pride like when abused gorja children take drugs cause they care nought for themselves.

I am going to Mass now I wont take Communion because I am not in a state of grace as I would like to crack a few people one at the moment.

TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 09:38

I can see why you would be touchy, beesimo as you are quite rightly defensive of your community, as I would be.

I just don't think this is the right forum for your vent. You are imagining slights where there are none.

Animation · 29/05/2011 09:55

"I thought you were up in the Yorkshire Dales beesimo.
Having extensive experience of the towns and cities of the North West, and many of the mining areas of West Yorkshire, I don't think feral teenagers is just a problem mainly in the South. I moved south to give my children a better quality of life than the one they were experiencing.
Found it too.
It sounds good in theory, the mining village I was brought up in was self-regulating along similar lines."

"The difficulty comes when the community decrees something unacceptable that is merely different. Then you get lads beaten for looking at the wrong lass, women battered for being too independent and undermining their men in some way, gays driven to suicide and Goths killed for being weird.
Not so good then.
And feuds that carry on down the generations"

FFS Goblin - this is what you said.

Negative stereotyping or what!!

TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 09:58

GC was saying that sometimes that happens!!

Sometimes that does happen!!

It doesn't just happen in the north, or the south, or travelling communities or whatever, but it does happen!! Fact!!

Can we move on already?

Goblinchild · 29/05/2011 10:00

That's what I said indeed, but it was a comment about a range of communities that act within themselves to regulate what they consider unacceptable behaviour, not an attack on one specific group.
I moved from an area with a -35% staying on at school/college/training rate, 3rd generation unemployment and regular riots to another area to increase the opportunities for my children to get an education in a safe area.

tomhardyismydh · 29/05/2011 11:13

bloody hell I have an early night and layin and its all kicking off agian ladies!!

gota get my roast prepared and im going to sit up with a coffe and read what has been happening here. Wink

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beesimo · 29/05/2011 11:46

I can back on here prepared to apoligise to certain parties for referring to Nazis when mentioning their sacred self BUT when I come back lo she has had two of me posts deleted. Wasn't that one of the first things the Nazis did ban free speak and the rights of people to have their voice heard?

I expect I'm on a list now cos they do like their lists, its lucky 'I can pass meself off' except for the faint whiff of hedgehog stew of course.

Tom

Sorry I am in a furiois temper and am dammned raging and rampaging about on your thread.

What are you having? We are having roast lamb, I feel a bit rotten as I knew its Mammy well.

I hope YOU have a nice day

Feenie · 29/05/2011 11:58

BUT when I come back lo she has had two of me posts deleted.

Anyone can report personal attacks, beesimo, it isn't a situation confined to the poster who is being attacked. I imagine several people reported your posts - myself included.

soverylucky · 29/05/2011 12:22

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

handsomeharry · 29/05/2011 13:02

The references to Nazis were foul. I am not surprised they were reported.

activate · 29/05/2011 13:10

Bloody nora - Godwin's law on a thread about staff being in school

tomhardyismydh · 29/05/2011 13:25

nothing just now bessimo, I just cilirt banged my bloody central heating and cooker. The spray dripped into the timer box and caused an almighty bang. The heating works Hmm but my oven has gone kaput. so transfered it into the slow cooker.

I didnt read your deleted posts bessimo. But I did read on another thread when you were talking about your heritage a few days ago and so I can see why this is very close to your heart and may get your blood boiling.

Im not sure Goblin was being inflammatory, I think she was merely talking about the draw backs of any self regulating society. I dont think it was her intention to specifically use any community as an example. But I do have to say I kind of agree with what she was saying. It certainly does not feflect any accosion of nazism

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tomhardyismydh · 29/05/2011 13:26

cilit banged

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tomhardyismydh · 29/05/2011 13:27

association bloody spell check

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TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 14:52

beesimo, you return to apologise for calling GC a Nazi and... call her a Nazi!

Now that's just not nice Grin

on a brighter note, I've had brunch and a lovely walk with the dogs....

Snakeears · 29/05/2011 15:03

Teachers work outside of the school building their working day does not need to be in the building to be at everyone's beck and call

claig · 29/05/2011 15:19

Do they have mobiles?

TheFlyingOnion · 29/05/2011 15:22

hi claig - why would they need mobiles?

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