Worried about swinging neighbours kids

[taylor74]

My next door neighbours who I have know for 2 yrs are swingers.It does not bother me what they do,its their life,what concerns me as a parent is the fact they have 2 kids a 9 and a 11 yr old. The other night she popped round to see if I could look after them as she had "friends" over. I said no as my DD was at her nans so me and DH was going to have a meal out.
The next day I asked if she found a sitter,she said no,I said well you can always rearrange another night to play,she said "Oh I played,just put the kids upstairs while I entertained" I was in shock,these men are strangers that come to her home,they could be anyone. I know we all need time out and a sex life but she was putting her needs before her kids.
AIBU

Alpine we'll have to agree to disagree on the rights and wrongs of drinking around children. I'm talking sometimes getting merry with parent friends whilst our dcs enjoy a sleepover. I think this is ok. Not necessarily "wholesome", but ok.

But can you really nor see that risking your dcs walking in on their mum and dad/mum's regular partner shagging is quite different to risking them walking in on their mum fellating some relative stranger whilst their dad watches?