to think exH could keep the kids until the agreed time

[piellabakewell]

...when he knows I've been up all night? Did the Moonwalk, got soon after 9am, went to bed at 10.30 and the kids were back by 2pm instead of 6pm. I didn't know what was going to happen until the doorbell rang and there they were. DD1 explained that he has gone to the cemetery as it was his mum's birthday yesterday. Since his mum clearly isn't going anywhere, surely he could have gone later in the afternoon?

yanbu but men are often stupid

and i laughed at the "since his mum clearly isnt going anywhere" line so much the wine went up my nose

Surely he should have taken them with him as she would be their late grandmother?

Was he there for you to send them back to him, what would have happened if you hadn't been there - would he have left the kids on the doorstep?

Definitely think he needs to be told that this isn't on...

oh and well done on doing the moonwalk!