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to be pissed off that my sis had ivf while fiddling benefits

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londonbabe · 14/05/2011 15:44

shes been with her oh for 15 years but she has been on is/jsa the whole time. he lives with her and is a warehouse manager. they have just had ivf paid for by the nhs and shes just found out shes pregnant,

aibu to be really pissed off that shes had the ivf paid for by the nhs while shes fiddling benefits and that she has ni intention of stopping once she has her baby next year????

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GypsyMoth · 14/05/2011 17:21

the comments she is a bored teenager.....

LadyBeagleEyes · 14/05/2011 17:23

Is your sister's partner an illegal immigrant?

MadamDeathstare · 14/05/2011 17:24

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MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:25

does he drive a black bm? and she has a white tt?!!

Mamaz0n · 14/05/2011 17:26

tilly - it is considered bad form to trawl prior posts and bring information gathered from such troll hunting onto the thread.

secondly being disabled or having a disability within the family does not exclude you from being told you are a twunt.

londonbabe · 14/05/2011 17:29

madamdeathstare yeah think you have summed it up. i probably shouldnt have put so much emphasis on the ivf,

for whoever said it no my sister is not my carer. no im not a bored teen,

im married, have a family i may not have written the post as well as i should but the way you have replied to me is disgusting. this is my second and last post.

all i can say is netmums were right about u lot c ya

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Mamaz0n · 14/05/2011 17:30

ahhhhhh, netmums.

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MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:30

bye hun!!

TheFlyingOnion · 14/05/2011 17:30

shut the door on your way out Smile

LadyBeagleEyes · 14/05/2011 17:33

Aw, you've gone. Miss you already Smile

BalloonSlayer · 14/05/2011 17:39

I see the OP has flounced but I was interpreting the problem with IVF as being that to get it free on the NHS you perhaps have to convince someone that you are in a stable relationship, living together etc.

I thought the OP was saying that it doesn't seem fair to get one thing, that some people have to pay for, for free by claiming to be living together and then another thing, also that some people have to pay for, for free by claiming not to be living together.

But hey Confused

MercurySoccer · 14/05/2011 17:39
Biscuit
MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:43

or maybe the op mummy told her tea was ready!!

GypsyMoth · 14/05/2011 17:44

actually mamazon,i had a look when she had been accused of being a bored teenager....

and its up to ME what i look at do/post/ ybad form???look a little closer at some posters remarks,thats bad form

MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:45

was i bad form!!! god i do hope so!!

GypsyMoth · 14/05/2011 17:46

dont know,probably according to mamazon,who knows?

MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:48

i think mamazon was being ironic!!! she is trully fabulous dont u know!!

Mamaz0n · 14/05/2011 17:49

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GypsyMoth · 14/05/2011 17:51

i had a look a her posts as someone was accusing her of trolling,which i didnt pick up on myself.

YOU are bad form. be abusive like that and expect to get pulled up yourself

oh,and i'm going nowhere

MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:54

i never said troll!!!!

Mamaz0n · 14/05/2011 17:54

i am rubber you are glue....

seriously. you are hilarious

MrsDrOwenHunt · 14/05/2011 17:57

what!! me!!!!! u know that!!

Mamaz0n · 14/05/2011 17:59

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