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There are some right rude barstards about.

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bupcakesandcunting · 11/05/2011 16:35

If you send someone a PM on here, do you expect a reply? Even just an acknowledgement that you've written them a message? Because I certainly do.

I PMed someone the other day to congratulate them on a good post and not even a "thanks". Rude sausage.

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bupcakesandcunting · 11/05/2011 16:49

"Why on earth would you PM someone to say "good post"? "

Well, Blush, the thread was a thread done to wind up folk and I thought that the poster did a good job in being a wind-up merchant. I didn't feel I could say that on the thread without incurring the wrath of the wound-up and I didn't feel equipped to deal with angry MNers at that time.

Anyway. I'm not asking if IABU to PM someone.

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Hullygully · 11/05/2011 16:50

Maybe they didn't have time. I get around 200 pms a day, no way I can answer all of them. In fact, I am going to get me a sekkertery.

PiazzaDellaRotonda · 11/05/2011 16:50

I only ever get PMs telling me off. I take note of the message, dismiss it summarily, delete the PM and put the PM'er on my 'cunt' list.


Grin

BlooferLady · 11/05/2011 16:50

Oh GOD! Someone PMed me about a TV series I'd seen and I swear I hadn't been on an MN thread about it - I was intrigued and meant to reply because it was a luffly PM but totally forgot and now I think it's gone. ARGH! Dear correspondent, if you're reading this, do feel free to PM again if you don't think I'm a rude barstard [sic] Grin /hadn't meant to email someone else entirely Blush

kenobi · 11/05/2011 16:50

In my case I PMed rather than replying on the thread as I didn't want it to get bumped to the top again.

slavewife · 11/05/2011 16:50

I have posts to say good post, not because of the post, but because of how I have handled myself.

I couldn't care either way, maybe the OP wasn't happy with the post!.

DameShirleyKnot · 11/05/2011 16:51

You are going get FUH-LAMED.

Can you feel those flames licking at your toes yet? Can you smell the porky aroma of your toes starting to crisp up?

Me too Hully - I can't be expected to answer all the millions of PM's I get a day.

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 11/05/2011 16:51

I am sure that most threads are not turning into arguments. I bet you are hanging around in AIBU Grin

try book club, parenting, in the news, litter tray and, erm, the million or other different topics MNHQ has given us totally pointlessly because EVERYONE POSTS EVERYTHING IN AIBU EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE NOT ASKING IF THEY ARE OR CARING IF THEY ARE

Grin

mylovelymonster · 11/05/2011 16:51

PJ - I think it is getting worse, or I'm just coming across it more, I don't know. And then there's just the inane foul swearing and crassness, and people chasing others around threads just to bitch at each other, I don't get how MN tolerates it.
Good luck with the house, btw.

P.S. Good post!

bupcakesandcunting · 11/05/2011 16:52

"Maybe they didn't have time. I get around 200 pms a day, no way I can answer all of them. In fact, I am going to get me a sekkertery."

Can I be it? I won't just sit on my arse filing my nails/eating biscuits all day.

Let them flame me. If twats highly-strung people can't see a not-entirely-serious thread when they see it, let them carry the fuck on.

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HecateQueenOfTheNight · 11/05/2011 16:53

MrSpoc Wed 11-May-11 16:49:24
HecateQueenOfTheNight - are you HactateQueenofthewitches????


I was HecateQueenOfWitches, yup.

I can't remember why I changed it.

Although my sister pointed out I sound like I am advertising certain services. Grin

Hullygully · 11/05/2011 16:54

You are too volatile.

I seek meekness in a sekkertery.

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 11/05/2011 16:54

I've never been sent a PM. God if I was sent a PM I'd respond RIGHT AWAY because I'd be so happy that I got a PM. It would be amazing to get a PM.

For some reason I have written that post with an Irish accent.

Paschaelina · 11/05/2011 16:55

"Hactate" hahahahahahaaa.


God, that would bother me.

DameShirleyKnot · 11/05/2011 16:55

Chuh, and now you've opened the door to yet another round of you is all bullies and sweary people.

NICE ONE BUPPY, NICE ONE.

JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 11/05/2011 16:57

I don't like PMs really.

They're the equivalent of passing round little notes in class saying "Sharon is a slag" or "Jason Smith smells like biscuits".

JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 11/05/2011 16:58

nicely x-posted there with Shirley and her "you is all bullies" thing Grin

MumblingRagDoll · 11/05/2011 17:00

Somene PMd me once to ask if my toddler wore rompers. Hmm

Now THAT was weird.

MumblingRagDoll · 11/05/2011 17:02

Psst....did you know that JenaiMarrPlaysGuitar doesn't wear a bra yet? AND she once ate a minstrel that Jason had aleady sucked.

bupcakesandcunting · 11/05/2011 17:03

And for pudding in her house you get frozen poo in an ice-cream tub.

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MrSpoc · 11/05/2011 17:03

Hactate how is the new business going? Now the weather is coming out i may be looking at some of your services!!! You know what I mean and it does not relate to your name.

MumblingRagDoll · 11/05/2011 17:05

Snigger!

[sticks note on Jenai's back]

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 11/05/2011 17:07

Grin I know.

No, it's really great! I have had a few requests from local groups to add listings and - the national trust too!! they emailed me today with all their listings.

and they said my site "looks great"

I am very happy that the national trust likes me Blush It's a big thing, I feel.

How about you?

bupcakesandcunting · 11/05/2011 17:09

Take it to PM, guys. Respect the rulez of the forum.

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MrSpoc · 11/05/2011 17:10

yeah its going great. really well just had the best month last month. took on another employee and hopefully 2 more soon. we will be coming up to Hope Valley soon for a bit of camping and then may be going to blue johns mine. When we do we will see what you recomend.

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