not to want to put my kit on?

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my dh has had a bit to drink and I've just come in from a night out. he asked me to put my kit on (nice underwear) I suddenly felt about as unsexy as it is possible to feel.so I've gone off to sleep in the spare room. A I B U?

god no!!!

ugh.....thats horrible!

why did him asking that have such an effect on you?

Idon't mind if it's done with a bit of humour snd when it's obvious we are leading
up to going to bed but not like that!

made her feel like some object i expect lewis,not a person....a mannequin or something!!

{ex used to say it to me}

That's not too bad, if he's had a couple he could have been a bit more subtle and perhaps tested the waters with you before diving in.

If you're not up for it then you're not up for it.

Is it that you'd prefer him to want you as you are, or aren't you into putting them on?

(or is this a lighthearted thread and you're just joshing?)

just the lack of lead up Plus he had been a bit snappy with me just as I came in

I could excuse the lack of lead up, and the alcohol talking, but snappy I wouldn't be happy with.

Hardly get you in the mood.

I'm not that keen on dressing up but he likes it occssionally and somtimrs asks for it 'as a trest'

sorry i have a new phone which i csn't work .yrs i think snapping at me was a bad move!

Could it just be down to the alcohol?

Sounds like he's desperate for you

have to be tomorrow night now!