I have not had the time to read every post here, and if this has already been said, then please forgive me.
However, Obama and his team did NOT watch the video live - they had a live link to Leon Panetta at CIA headquarters who kept them updated on how the raid was unfolding. It was not the kind of distasteful peepshow you are trying to suggest.
I am a brit living here in the US, I moved here 18 months ago for my job.
I have to say that on the whole after the raid on Sunday, I have witnessed very careful, thoughtful comments from friends and colleagues. Yes, some, many of them college students, rushed to the White House and other sites, to chant USA, USA. But that is not a true reflection of the complex and interesting discussion on-going here in the USA. Many of my friends actually went to the Pentagon to visit the memorial there and reflect quietly on the friends and colleagues that they lost in that attack. Others posted on FB about how they feared that this would increase hostility against the USA and how Americans would have to be more cautious in their behaviours.
In fact, personally I have witnessed more distasteful behavior here on MN, especially in the thread a few months ago about the Pentagon attack being a hoax.
I have been incredibly impressed by the level of honesty and transparency that has surrounded this mission. And even surprised, as I would not expect that in the UK, especially if the SAS had been involved in something similar.