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AIBU to be really annoyed at being TOLD to buy local strawberrries???

43 replies

LPO · 03/05/2011 16:26

I have just got back from doing my weekly food shop with DS. And am fuming!

I was unloading my shopping at the check-out and another customer came up behind me. This old man decided that it was his place to tell me that the strawberries that I was buying were the 'wrong ones' and that i should 'go back and change them for the local ones'. I was really taken aback and began to explain that i was buying these as they were that bit cheaper etc. He kept arguing with me that I should be paying more and buying the others etc.

I totally agree that it is better to buy local produce when you can. However as money is a little short at the moment I am trying to spend less. And surely this is totally my choice and no one else has the right to tell me what i should/shouldn't be buying?!

Is it not MY choice what I spend MY money on???

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Ormirian · 03/05/2011 16:27

Yes it is your choice.

But as it happens he is right Wink

LPO · 03/05/2011 16:27

I know he is right, local produce is loads better. I said that in OP. But sometimes spending that extra few pounds adds up.

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LPO · 03/05/2011 16:28

Surely he isn't right to be telling me at the supermarket check-out??

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Ormirian · 03/05/2011 16:28

I know it does. I was only joshing really. He had no right to harangue you.

ConnorTraceptive · 03/05/2011 16:28

What orm says and I'm sure someone will be along soon to tell you that if money is tight then there are a lot cheaper fruits to buy than strawberries Wink

Bloodymary · 03/05/2011 16:30

Your money. Your choice!

LPO · 03/05/2011 16:30

yes i am sure there is. But DS loves them and they were his 'little treat' instead of biscuits.

Sorry, really p*ed off

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LaurieFairyCake · 03/05/2011 16:30

Well, ignore him them - no one forced you to stand there arguing with him Confused

When random strangers start whining on to me about something I don't want to hear I walk away - you don't have to justify your actions.

coccyx · 03/05/2011 16:30

out of season strawberries, no thanks , don't care how cheap they are...no thanks.

MoreBeta · 03/05/2011 16:30

Local ones might not be better tasting either- although undoubtedly come with fewer food miles.

TobyLerone · 03/05/2011 16:30

What Orm and Connor said.

But yeah, he shouldn't have stuck his beak in.

Ormirian · 03/05/2011 16:32

Do you have a PYO nearby? We are all waiting with bated breath for ours to open. Nothing beats sun-warmed ripe strawbs. Still not cheap but cheaper than the supermarket usually.

Georgimama · 03/05/2011 16:32

He was probably a bit senile - there is no good reason why anyone would march up to perfect strangers and accost them about their shopping choices so it seems to be the only reasonable explanation.

Why did you enter into it? That's the bit I don't understand.

VinegarTits · 03/05/2011 16:36

how annoying!

even more annoying that people rock up and tell you hes right, when you already agreed in the op he right but money is tight

you well within your right to tell him to fuckoff but out

LPO · 03/05/2011 16:36

Didn't really mean to. He kind of threw me. He was stood behind me in the queue whilst I was waiting to begin packing. At first he got my attention because he was talking to DS. And then began his little tirade. When he first said it it took me a while to register (live in foreign speaking country) but when i twigged I just replied jokingly that 'these are just a bit cheaper'. And that was it then, he was off on one at me.

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lubberlich · 03/05/2011 16:36

I hate smug food nazis.

Butterbur · 03/05/2011 16:37

British strawberries are far better than foreign ones - mainly Spanish. For some reason they are usually both sweeter and more fragrant - just try puffing the carton, and sniffing.

LPO · 03/05/2011 16:39

I felt like telling him that if he was so bothered then he could pay for the local ones!

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frgr · 03/05/2011 16:45

None of his business. YANBU.

GnomeDePlume · 03/05/2011 16:50

LPO - dare I ask which country you are in? Some people do feel entitled to offer an opinion even when not asked. I have observed this as a national charcteristic!

gkys · 03/05/2011 16:51

cheeky sod! YANBU,

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 03/05/2011 16:54

Maybe he's a local strawberry farmer?

ForeverNamechanging · 03/05/2011 17:01

YANBU buy whatever strawberries you wish!

NettoSuperstar · 03/05/2011 17:04

Buy whatever you want.
I hate people yelling me to buy local/organic/free range blah blah. I'll make my own decisions thanks.

oldraver · 03/05/2011 17:06

Where do you live that you can buy local strawberries already ? Non round these 'ere parts yet