Oh I have started World War Three with my PIL and my parents.
It is DD's first birthday on Friday (yes, the day of the Royal Wedding [cwink]). We have planned a small ish celebration for her, with friends and family.
My DS is 3.5. I have explained to him that it is DD's birthday, and that on DD's birthday she will get presents and that he will not. That he will get presents on his birthday - in September. And she won't. This is important to me because DS is already spoiled rotten by his GPs and I think it is important to learn this lesson.
Anyway, so I mentioned this on the phone to my PIL and to my Mum, who are coming to the party on Friday. You'd think I'd said I was going to let him go to a party on his own at Garry Glitter's house. Jeez.
"Oh LittleOneMum, you CANNOT be so horrible to him! Poor little thing, he won't understand why she is getting all the presents and attention!" (er, yes he will I have explained)
" But I have already bought him lots of things!" (that's just silly, but you can bring that stuff next time)
"Oh, I am bringing him a small present only" (yeah, right, I saw that parcel that you had delivered from Amazon to my house and it is the size of a tricycle).
AIBU to stand my ground on this?
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to say NO PRESENTS for my DS when it is my DD's birthday?
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LittleOneMum · 27/04/2011 15:01
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