To call my EX and leave a bitchy voicemail?

[nonamesavalible]

Actually probably but I don't care, my and H seperated a month ago and we have agreed he will have the DC's today at Midday, it is the first time he has seen them and promised me he wouldn't be late... but he is already 20 mins late, I have the DC's asking me where daddy is and I can hear the sadness in their voices and I don't know what to say.
I have tried calling him but his phone is switched off so I have left him a voicemail telling him that I think he is a twat and as useless as a father as is was a husband.
I had plans for the day but I have now got to cancel which isn't a big deal but I was looking forward to some me time.
So angry but WIBU?

[Mrswhiskerson]

Sorry I meant ya not bu

[Satireisbest]

If he's 'always' been like this he's not going to change is he?

And as you've got another 16 years or so of seeing and dealing with him, you'll have to find a way of getting used to it.

[Nanking]

Im very shocked by some of the first few posts on this thread...are they all holyer than thou and never once lost their tempers? I think not.....

[Gubbins]

If my husband (current, not separated or estranged) was twenty minutes late to pick my daughters up from pre-school or school then I'd be furious, never mind the rest of it. The childminder once forgot to pick the younger up and dd needed reassurance for a couple of weeks after that she wasn't going to be left 'til last again. It must be so much worse when it's their Daddy they're waiting to come through the nursery door.