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AIBU?

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or am I right to think this mum is just being lazy and taking an unnecessary risk?

83 replies

maxpower · 20/03/2011 09:32

DD is in reception. A classmate of hers lives 2 doors away from the school. However, to get to the school, the classmate has to walk up 3 sets of stairs (so ends up out of view of her house), through a wooded area with a public footpath running through it and round to the rear of the school building to get to the playground (from where the children go in to class). Her mum 'allows' her to do this journey alone. On a couple of occasions, other mums of children in the class have kept an eye on the girl as there are a few of us who think it's not safe for her to be doing this joureny alone. The girl is barely 4 1/2 and is very small for her age. Mum only has one child, she doesn't work and has no physical problems preventing her walking. I'm sure she only comes to collect her in the afternoon because the school wouldn't let the girl leave without an adult meeting her. It just strikes me that she's too lazy to do what has to be the shortest school run imaginable.

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BustleInYourHedgerow · 21/03/2011 23:28

I don't think it's a child protection issue persay, but YANBU

Deliainthemaking · 21/03/2011 23:31

YANBU

shes too young

toddlerama · 23/03/2011 18:33

So, did you tell the school, OP?

edam · 23/03/2011 18:35

bustle - it is a child protection issue, I'm afraid. (It's per se, btw. Not being funny, just thought it'd be handy to know.)

CocktailQueen · 23/03/2011 18:43

YANBU. What a lazy old bat. At 4.5? far too young to do school run by herself. Am surprised the school hasn't said something the the mother - they certainly would at ours!

princessparty · 23/03/2011 19:00

How far is it?

maxpower · 25/03/2011 10:32

Sorry I've not been back on for a few days. I was going to tell the head on Monday but she wasn't in. That day, there was a security incident in the wooded area around the school which involved one of the schoolgirls Sad . As a direct result, all the parents have been notified and the mum in question appears to have started to walk her daughter to school again. Hopefully, that will be an end to this particular matter, but if she stops I'll definitely inform the head.

Thanks for all the replies and interest in this. FWIW, I undertsand the girl involved in the security incident is ok.

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Vicky2011 · 25/03/2011 11:25

How sad that is took something like that to shake this mum up :-(

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