sorry to sound off here but i have a dd who has been at her new very good independent school for 2 terms, she is twelve and she has just told me that her bf dad disapproves of her. i am incensed as i dont think he knows her he has met her once!. dd is exceptionally bright hence the scholarship to this school. i just really dont understand, i mean its not like she has taught her friend to smoke or swear !!! [shock], [confused], [sad], [angry]