AIBU in hating direct debits which hand the control of MY money over to an organisation which may decide at its convenience when or how to take that money?
I have no problem with sending them a standing order every month, to pay on receipt of a bill, but I would like to be the one who is in control of what to do at a time that I find convenient.
I understand that it is much more convenient for said organisations to bully us into paying by direct debit, but feel that my convenience should be taken into account