"Are we that insecure ladies that we feel intimiadted and uncomfortable when we sit next to a man looking at page 3 ?"
avantia when I was a 10, 12, 14 year old girl, yes I did feel uncomfortable when I sat next to men who were looking at page 3. Are you really suggesting that mine was an abnormal reaction?
"Unless we look like a page 3 model ourselves than I dont think that man would give us a second glance !"
I also spent the years from puberty to my late twenties getting second glances and much more from random men. I did not like it at all.
Why are you pretending that these things don't happen? Why must we tell our girls that it is normal for for men to look at images of women designed to arouse them, while sitting next to schoolgirls on the tube?
What do we say to our girls about how men will look at page 3, then at their chests, then at page 3, when they are well under 16 and just trying to make a bus journey. That male heterosexual sexuality reigns supreme, that as a young girl they are there to be looked at, and that they shouldn't be offended? Because men like looking at women, and there is nothing wrong with this? So what's the problem.
I'm not having it. It is a shitty message for our girls and young women. I didn't like it when men leered at me. Apparently that was wrong of me
. Bollocks.