to be sick of people complaining "this is why I dont read AIBU" when people disagree with them

[allsquareknickersnofurcoat]

The answer's easy really.....

this is exactly why I don't read AIBU

Ahhh...they need to grow a pair

"Right, I've lost this argument, no-one at all agrees with me, but I MUST HAVE THE LAST WORD "

It's because you aren't supposed to have a different opinion.

they are not actually asking for your opinion. they are asking you to support their opinion. If you don't, then clearly you hate them and are attacking them personally. and are a fool, because if you were a reasonable person with an actual brain, you would agree that they were perfectly reasonable to beat their mother in law into a coma because she put a mug in the cupboard instead of on the mugtree, because clearly the mil was attempting to destroy the marriage.

Hecate

YANBU

And if you don't agree with me thhen you are nasty [sulks]

Hecate.

You are a genius. My mil has had a narrow escape .

Hec, you are, of course, correct, but moreover you have an incredible way with words!

YANBU OP.