I don't want to spank a man, but I like to be spanked. Am I being unreasonable?

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The title says it all.

Oh and the same goes for digital penetration of any kind!

does your man what to be spanked then?

No, I'm dating at the moment and the one I'm seeing now hasn't said anything about it. It's just something that came up at work today.

Well if you found someone who liked to dominate rather than be dominated then surley they would enjoy spanking but not being spanked...

Maybe if you brought the subject up, he'd know what you like.

I'm guessing he is not a mind-reader.

how do you know you would'nt like to spank a man? have you tried it?

and why are worried about something that hasn't even come up yet?..

Is it me or are you being unclear about digital penetration of "any kind" if the title says it all?

Then again it has been a long week and I am too tired for Friday-night material. Apologies if so and enjoy your spanking. Fill your boots, ride rings around each other etc

I like to be spanked too. But I also like to smack his arse and call him a dirty bitch

He loves it.

YABU to name change for this

What are you ashamed of ?

erm.

do what you like.

talk.

If you can get naked with someone but can't discuss your sexual preferences, you should really put your clothes back on and have a cup of tea instead.

not very interesting really...can you think of something else instead ?

Beans, Mumcentreplus? What are you, some kind of pervert?

moi?

I only like beans on toast me!

Toast as well. There is no end to your depravity.

What do you mean by "digital penetration of any kind"? Does that mean putting your iPod/mobile phone up there or something?

Lol Kitty, that made me choke on my tea digital penetration means penetration with ones digits ie. Fingers!

not unreasonable at all.some people like being spanked and some like spanking others and some like both.

I love being spanked. It makes me feel so fulfilled.

And your point is?

spanking is very vanilla for a Friday night thread < yawn >

Lightly buttered fresh toast,hot beans with a sprinkle of cheese..

Half-term, innit?

digital penetration..hmmm I thought it was a new kind of rabbit that plays music or some such ... she could have just said fingering ..

I don't care. Aibu?